Choose Flowers for Your Wedding Day

A wedding would just not be the same without flowers. Every bride wants her wedding to be memorable and her choice of flowers or arrangements should reflect her specific taste and personality. Her flowers should create a theme to make her wedding day special and provide the finishing touch to this very special day.

Steps

  1. Understand that there are no right or wrong choices when selecting flowers for your wedding. It is your own personal choice, as your own preferences are the most important part, as well as having a basic understanding of what works well for the theme you've chosen and your budget. You can also expect a good florist to provide you with helpful advice, so be prepared to ask plenty of questions and to run ideas past your florist once you reach that stage. Some basics to grasp before getting into the details include:
    • Remember that less is more. Flowers are the splash of color, the ornamentation on top of many other already beautiful parts of a wedding.
    • Good positioning and use of inexpensive Arrange Foliage can create the sense that you have more floral arrangements than you actually do.
    • Your florist must share your vision, or it's time to find one who does.
  2. Start by looking through bridal magazines, books, and even gardening books that focus on flowers. If you don't already have an idea of the types of flowers you'd like to have, simply looking at beautifully photographed flowers can be a lovely way to start getting an idea of what you like. Even consider taking a tour of a local Botanical Garden or a greenhouse where flowers are on display, to get a real feel for how the flowers appear.
    • Learn the different meanings of the flowers so that this can play a part in your decision; you might want to express certain sentiments through the "language of flowers". Read Express Yourself Using the Language of Flowers to find the meanings of flowers with accompanying images.
    • There are some classic wedding flowers with which you can't go wrong. They are: roses, peony, lily of the valley, hydrangea, orchid, and calla lily. This doesn't mean you must have any of these flowers but it can help you when deciding to know that these classics are sound choices.
  3. Determine your budget. Before you get too excited, do the sums. Some floral arrangements might not be realistic once you have budgeted for everything else, so it's a good idea to know how much you have to spend on flowers before getting your hopes up. When you visit the florist, you can discuss the extent of your budget and work from there. It's a good idea to keep some flowers on your "must-have" list and some on your "wish-list", so that if you do have to pare down, the wish-list flowers can go first without depleting the flowers that you must have. See the "Tips" below for an indication of essential flowers versus nice-but-not-necessary ones, if the budget can't stretch that far.
    • Be prepared to be more creative if you're on a budget.
    • Don't hedge around the cost with your florist. Be honest if you can't afford much; it'll help your florist look for cheaper but just as lovely alternatives early on.
    • Use expensive flowers sparingly, such as for the bridal bouquet only.
    • Centerpieces soon add up. Consider finding less elaborate Make an Earth Friendly Centerpiece to reduce the costs if your budget is tight.
    • Feel free to mix and match flower types and to raid the garden as well. All flowers are beautiful, whether they're cheap or expensive; the important thing is freshness and a price you can afford.
    • Use fragrant flowers to give the impression that there are more flowers; stronger smelling flowers will perfume a room with ease (for example, frangipani, lilies, hyacinths, jasmine, and sweet peas).
  4. Consider the color of the flowers. Color is an important part of your decision about which flowers to have. The colors chosen should complement the bridal gown, the wedding theme, and the clothing of the rest of the bridal party. Colors chosen according to the seasonal availability will allow you the greatest impact for the smaller price, as seasonal flowers will always cost less. When thinking about color, consider what the flowers have to contend with in the room, Prepare for an Outdoor Event During Uncertain Weather, or outdoor area where they're located and be sure to choose colors that will stand out. Some of the more popular flowers by color choice include:
    • White: rose, sweet pea, camellia, stephanotis, narcissus, gardenia, orchid, lily of the valley, jasmine, and snowdrop.
    • Pink: rose, ranunculus, peony, sweet pea, carnation, tulip, protea, boronia, and lily.
    • Lavender: lavender, Make Lilac Bubble Bath, anemone, statice, iris, delphinium, and hydrangea.
    • Yellow: daffodil, sunflower, tulip, gerbera, lily, and freesia.
    • Red: gerbera, rose, dahlia, poinsettia, and amaryllis.
  5. Consider the season. The season plays an important role in your choice, especially if you're budget-conscious. While non-seasonal flowers can be flown in, this increases the cost and complexity considerably. And if you're into locally grown produce, it's hardly appropriate to have flowers flown in! Some of the more well-known, popular flowers are indicated alongside their season here (noting that there may be regional and climate variances depending on where you live in the world):
    • Spring flowers: amaryllis, anemone, daffodil, freesia, gerbera, lily of the valley, orchid, ranunculus, stephanotis, and sweet pea.
    • Summer flowers: anthurium, carnation, chrysanthemum, gypsophila, lily, magnolia, Grow and Care for Peonies, rose, and sunflower.
    • Autumn/fall flowers: agapanthus, aster, clematis, daisy, hosta, hydrangea, passion flower, and pinks.
    • Winter flowers: camellia, euphorbia, iris, nerine, pansy, poinsettia, snowdrop, tulip.
    • All year round flowers: calla lily, carnation, gypsophila, orchid, Select Everlasting Flowers, rose, and tulip (although this list may vary by region).
  6. Think about where you want flowers to play a role in your wedding. Wedding flowers can be simple or elaborate depending on the type of wedding that is being planned. Either way, they should have a look of individuality and look as if they have all been specially created for the bride. Flowers are suitable for the following places and arrangements:
    • The bridal bouquet, and bouquets for the wedding party members (see below).
    • Flowers for the church or other place of marriage); flowers can be placed at the end of pews, on the altar, chancel steps, windowsills, around candelabra etc. Floral displays in most churches need to be large to be effective in the huge space of the church; if you have a tight budget, in some cases, you might even share the cost of the flowers in a church wedding if there is another wedding on the same day; that's totally up to your preferences though). Note that some clergy will oppose decoration of the Be an Altar Server.
    • A register or registry office building or town hall may be less willing to have your own flowers but it's worth asking if you can bring in one special arrangement of your own.
    • A decorated bridal arch or arbor.
    • A carpet of fresh petals for an outside wedding.
    • Tables at a sit-down dinner.
    • Flowers around a hall, marquee, dance area for the reception.
  7. Start with the Choose the Shape of Your Bridal Bouquet. This is the most intimate floral arrangement for the wedding and if you can't afford many flowers, at least don't skimp on the bouquet! The bride's bouquet should be the largest and most spectacular bouquet in the wedding party. White is still traditionally the most popular color for the bride's bouquet, but many different colors are used in weddings today for the bride and bridesmaids from soft pastels such as pale pink through to rich, vibrant colors such as hot pink, burgundy and violets. Ultimately, the choice of flowers for the bouquet depend on what you want, the style of your dress, your height and your wedding theme. It is recommended that you don't finalize the bouquet until you have chosen your dress, because the two must match perfectly, and usually the larger the dress, the larger the bouquet.
    • There are various styles of bouquets. These include round, trailer, sheaf, crescent, line, and cascade bouquets:
      • Round bouquets are a popular choice for many brides. This style is usually used for large flowers such as roses or peonies, loosely arranged with foliage and tied with a ribbon.
      • Large trailing bouquets (a cascade) are particularly suited to romantic style wedding gowns. They will only work well with larger dresses though; they overpower anything slinky or close-fitting. These usually consist of flowers wired to a handle; it is both the most traditional and most formal form of bouquet shapes.
      • Tied bouquets are hand tied casually or wound together with wire. This style goes best with a modern, simple dress at a contemporary wedding.
      • A posy is a minimalist approach that is very small and usually hand-tied with ribbon; lily of the valley is an ideal flower for this type of bouquet.
      • A pomander bouquet is usually made without the addition of foliage and it can be suspended on a Press Vintage Ribbons for the bride to wear on her wrist.
      • An elegant line bouquet of lilies is a good choice for a slim-fitting gown.
      • A modern style bouquet made of exotic flowers and tropical foliage will suit the contemporary bride.
    • Consider additional embellishments to a bouquet:
      • Pearls and crystals can be incorporated into bouquets for a touch of added glamour.
      • For a delicate touch sheer organza ribbon can be used to create ribbon bows and long streamers.
      • Wide satin ribbon will give a rich, luxurious look.
  8. Decide upon the bridesmaids' bouquets. The bridesmaids' flowers can be a smaller version of the brides flowers or a different shape but still maintaining the color theme. If the bride is carrying a trailing bouquet the bridesmaids could carry round bouquets. Each of the bouquets can be the same color as the brides bouquet. If you do select a different color, ensure that it blends well with the bridal bouquet and the overall Pick a Wedding Day Color. Ultimately, aim for good coordination.
    • To give a different look, the bridesmaids could carry elegant evening bags filled with flowers. The bag would need to be lined with a piece of plastic to prevent staining the inside of the bag. A piece of soaked florist foam can be placed in the bag and the flowers and foliage arranged in the foam to extend gracefully from the top of the bag.
  9. Decide upon the style of the flower girl's flowers. This daintiest member of the wedding party could carry a small basket of flowers to match the bridesmaids' flowers. The basket can be sprayed white or a pastel shade. Another alternative is to attach a spray of flowers to a piece of ribbon and tie it around the flower girl's wrist, tying the ribbon ends in a bow with long ends. This is particularly suitable for a very young flower girl who may find a basket awkward to carry.
    • One delightful variation is to just give the Decorate a Flower Girl's Basket rose or other petals in her basket and to ask her to scatter the flowers down the aisle. Naturally, clear this with the wedding officiant and/or building owner first.
    • Consider a floral bracelet and/or a floral hair ornament to adorn the flower girl. A floral wreath that sits on the hair like a fairy or nymph is another pretty variation. She'll be super delighted with these special touches.
    • Consider giving flower girls under 5 a teddy bear or other soft toy with its own corsage. The soft toy can be kept afterward as a thank-you gift.
  10. Prepare the bridegroom and groomsmen. Although their need for flowers is less showy, it's just as important, and they will wear a buttonhole/boutonniere. For the groom, provide something that has a slight difference from the buttonholes for the groomsmen – such as a single flower that is the same as one in the bridal bouquet. Flowers that are popular for buttonholes include roses, carnations, orchids, and small varieties of Make Cream Lilies. Lily of the valley is popular for buttonholes because it is an expensive flower but goes a long way in a buttonhole.
    • Consider giving the father of the bride ad groom a special buttonhole of their own.
    • If you have the budget and the inclination, you could also leave buttonholes in a dish for all guests to take as they enter the church or area where you're getting married.
  11. Prepare the corsages. Both the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom wear corsages. These should complement their outfits. The standard corsage flowers include roses, orchids, camellias, and gardenias.
    • Often grandmothers and special aunts will wear corsages too.
    • It is helpful to know the color of the dresses of those wearing corsages, to ensure that the colors will not clash – white or cream is always a safe, neutral choice.
  12. Finished.



Tips

  • Essential wedding flowers are: bridal bouquet, grooms' buttonhole, bridesmaids' posies, corsages, ceremony arrangement (sometimes at the altar), table centerpieces, and thank-you bouquets.
  • Red in China and some other Asian cultures is seen as a bridal color that brings especially good luck. Red flowers could be a beautiful way to incorporate this custom into a more traditional Western wedding.
  • Flowers provide the finishing touch to a wedding; by choosing flowers to complement your wedding theme it will give you wonderful memories to treasure for a lifetime.
  • For a low-budget, earth-centered wedding or a Ren faire style wedding, local wildflowers gathered in season can be a spectacular theme including flower circlets for the women in the ceremony or for everyone in the ceremony.
  • Not essential wedding flowers (but nice if the budget permits): guest buttonholes or corsages, pew end arrangements, church entrance, petal confetti, reception entrance/hallways, cake table, other areas.
  • Some brides use a freeze-dried bouquet. This lasts forever, so can be a nice option. Or, you may get this done after the ceremony.
  • Handmade art flowers such as beaded flowers, origami flowers and other crafts flowers are another way a bride can have a forever bouquet and/or decorations made from the heart that become keepsakes. If your friends aren't crafty, consider shopping online and offline crafts markets to give your wedding this feel. Cost is reasonable to free depending on whether they're bought or created by friends.

Warnings

  • Be aware that some guests can have very strong allergies to certain flowers, especially hyacinths. Ask your florist if you are unsure whether the flowers you like are "safe" for everyone. Some plants are also toxic if ingested. Keep that in mind when decorating for a wedding with small children attending.
  • Planning a wedding can be stressful. By working out the style and colors of your wedding flowers ahead of time will help you work to an overall theme to have the wedding of your dreams.

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