Flirt With Guys at School
Can't get your dream guy to notice you? Or you simply don't know how to flirt? You've come to the right place! Here we will teach you how to be a confident flirty woman, so put in those contacts and read carefully!
Steps
- Be conscious of your appearance. If you want to flirt with guys, the first thing that you need is to pay attention to your physical appearance. You should wear clothes that look good on you - something elegant, clean looking, comfortable, and at the same time, something that makes you feel confident. Remember, you don't need to have millions of expensive outfits to look beautiful because some simple fashions never go out of style!
- Try sporting dark, slimming jeans, a simple solid colored tank or cami, some chunky bead necklaces, or a cute sun dress.
- Avoid looking like a slob or wearing any outfits that have stains or wrinkles in them.
- Groom yourself to look more beautiful. Be sure that you shower and clean yourself regularly. You should also wear deodorant, shave frequently, clean your ears, brush your teeth and hair, and you could try to paint your nails. Also, try to wear your hair in a style that makes you feel pretty - have a variety of hairstyles so you don't look boring!
- If desired, use a perfume that smells sweet, but is not too overpowering. Two sprays on the neck and one spray on one wrist, then rub your two wrists together to transfer the scent.
- Give him the opportunity to approach you. Don't stay in a group. A guy may find it a little uncomfortable to approach you if you are in a large group of people. No man can bear a rejection in front of a herd. Also, he may feel that he can't approach you because of your friends.
- Ensure that you are sitting or standing alone for at least some time, so that he can approach you easily. Also, try to minimize the distance between the two of you. For example, you can sit at the chair next to him.
- Remember that actions are powerful. There are multiple ways to act flirty, here are some of the best suggestions:
- Compliments. Be sure to compliment him on things that are true. Be sincere. Sometimes people will make up compliments just to talk to someone, but that is a totally wrong thing to do. You really should compliment on things you actually like about a person, so you sound more natural and confident.
- Eye contact. The eyes can be the most effective tool for flirting. It's possible to make a guy's heart skip a beat simply by giving him a playful, lusty, or lingering stare. Here is how to do it:
- If you're walking by someone you've got the hots for, give him a 2-3 second stare and then slowly glance away (slow is important). Smile just as you start to look away. He'll get the message.
- Additionally, when you're talking to a guy you like, take a second to momentarily break away from his eyes and pause on his upper body or chest. Let 2 seconds pass. Then slowly move your eyes back up and make eye contact again. This will give him chills of excitement. He'll realize that you were checking him out - and he'll love it. However, be warned that shy guys will feel uncomfortable and more nervous, as much as they may like it!
- Smile and giggle. According to polls, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest things a female can wear. If you perfect your smile and laugh to be seductive and sweet, you will find some great results. Practice forcing a natural smile and laugh, it can help through awkward situations.
- Magic Touch
- You can learn to brush a guy in such a way that you send tingles up and down his spine. Casually and gently tap him on the hand while laughing, it will give him a sense of manliness.
- Start conversations. Approach him and start a light conversation to get things going, but don't make it too obvious that you like him. If he approaches you, look him in the eyes as a sign of affection and confidence. The best opening line is just saying hello. Talk about what you have in common, talk about your surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.
- Get to know him. After he has come up to you and both of you have started talking, just try to find out whether he is your type or not. Is he one of the pushy ones, or will he stop at the line you draw? If you feel comfortable with him, carry on with the evening. In case he is not your type, just excuse yourself politely from his company. However, remember that you are the one who led him on. Now if you don't feel up to it, don't get outright rude.
- Lastly, if he's interested in you, don't just go immediately to be "best friends" or "boyfriend and girlfriend". Just start hanging out with him, become friends first, slowly become best friends or even more, let the relationship develop naturally! You want to make sure that he is the right guy for you, and you have things in common! It's fine if he doesn't seem like your type; stick with him and you may have secured yourself a best friend for life!
Tips
- Wear clothes that make you feel beautiful, not just any tight raunchy clothes.
- You don't have to shave if you don't want to. You don't have to wear makeup, either. Do whatever makes you comfortable.
- After you talk for a while and get to know him better, start greeting him with a hug and try spending more time together
- Men don't want to date (or even flirt) with a girl who has hairy legs, bad breath, and doesn't take shower. Take pride in your body! Be clean when you approach him. Be confident. You don't want the guy to feel bad for you. Have a smile and just be yourself! That is what all guys want in a girl.
Warnings
- Be yourself, or he will only like the imaginary "you".
- Put your cell phone away! It tells guys you have more important things in your life than socializing with him.
- Don't assume all guys will fall for you if you use these tips.
- Don't let anyone distract you. Keep all of your attention on him!
Things You'll Need
- A crush (at school)
- Some confidence
- Cute, casual clothes
- Clean teeth
