Flirt With a Guy You Don't Know
Have you ever seen a guy at the beach or the mall that is so cute? We all have! Here are a few steps to get a complete stranger to notice you!
Steps
- Glance at him every now and then, you may catch him looking at you too.
- If you do catch his gaze, smile and say hi! He should return the greeting with a smile or hello, or both!
- Continue your shopping, but keep glancing. If you meet his eyes again, giggle and look away, this could send signals that you are interested.
- Now you can talk to him, if he does not talk to you first you go to him.
- Start a conversation. Start this conversation with something like "Oh, that shirt you have will look great on you, you should get it!" if he is holding a shirt or something. Just continue from there!
- When you feel as though the conversation can come to a close (and leave him wanting more) tell him you enjoyed talking with him, tell him you would love to see him again, this should give him the idea that you are interested and he will probably ask for a number, if not you ask him (unless his body language says he is not interested)
- If you want him to come to you, walk by him and do a hair flip, but please make the hair flip natural! No guy wants a fake ditz. If you feel him looking at you when you stop, smile a little and giggle to yourself as if you remembered something funny (but don't look at him while doing this), it will be inviting and cute. Glance at him and smile and look away shyly. Bite your lip once(practice this in the mirror!) He should come to you in a heart beat!
Tips
- Do a self check before you go in, check your hair, makeup, clothes, etc.
- Smile! It always make you seem friendly and approachable.
- Don't be scared, breathe deep before you go in. After all he could be the one, don't lose your chance!
- Be yourself while talking.
- When you are talking to him, make sure you are friendly, don't laugh too loud, be confident (but demure), bite your lip once (if you haven't done it yet) play with your hair, and stand up straight. They might hate slouchy girls; it also makes you appear more confident and it is so much more attractive!
- Don't glance to often, you could look like you're obsessed.
- Make sure you read his body language, if he is not looking interested, end the conversation.
- When he is looking at you smile and bite your lip, then look away.
- Sound interested when talking... better yet be interested.
- If you happen to smell a little funky and you're in a clothing store or something, splash some of their perfume on, but make sure it smells nice first.
- Go with the flow, let your natural feelings show
- Be as fun as you can. Everyone likes someone that is fun. If you are walking around... lets say Walmart, do something crazy to get him laughing.
- If he happens to leave the store before you make your move, follow him. But be discrete, you don't want him to think you're a stalker!
Warnings
- Don't lie about anything, you might grow a relationship and when he finds out it could ruin it.
- Make sure he is not with a girl!!!
- Don't put your finger in your mouth, though some guys think this is sexy, to others it may come across as though your biting your nails which is a dirty habit (which it is) and you never know what he might think!
- He may ignore you, just pretend as though nothing happened, and don't fret he's probably not worth it anyway!
- Don't leave your bags unattended if you are at the mall and you go talk to him. <(random i know, but it could happen)
Things You'll Need
- Your confidence
- Your Smile
- A friend to help push you along so you don't back out!
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