Be the Man for Your Girlfriend

Every guy wants to be all macho for his girlfriend but ends up getting dumped for some stupid move or line. Girls like a guy who is mature and absolutely adores her. Read this guide for everything you need to know.

Steps

  1. Make her feel as if you would do anything to make sure she is safe, but don't do the "Who did you see today, who did you talk to, where did you go?" kind of thing.
  2. If at any time you can somehow say the words "I just don't want you to get hurt," or something equally as caring/sweet, go for it.
  3. Be sweet, but also courageous. Women absolutely love a man who is sweet but can be the hero that saves her life.
  4. Put your arm around her waist, not around her shoulder. It's more romantic.
  5. When she is sad or upset always be there for her. Even if you are busy you should always make time for her and make sure she is happy so she knows how much you care for her! Plus, girls love it when their boyfriend can just kiss them when they're sad or wipe away the tears.
  6. If she is ever in danger be her superman and do everything in your power to help her and afterwards make sure you ask if she is ok and show her that you are really worried and you don't know what you would do if she ever got hurt.
  7. Don't get annoyed when she wants you to do something for her, it's her way of seeing if are committed to her needs as much as your own.
  8. Always put her first before anyone else and you will see that in turn she will do the same.
  9. Be as confident as you can — women love confident men. However, don't take it too far — if too confident, women will find you arrogant and egotistic.
  10. Tell her you love her — by not just words but little surprise when least expected.
  11. Never under any circumstances go into a date without a game plan. In case the question,"What do you want to do?" comes up, have something planned in mind. Something is absolutely better than nothing!
  12. When you see her talk with other men do not freak out! Your cool headed demeanor will show her that you trust her and respect her. Remind yourself that the presence of other men will only make you look better in her eyes. Yes, you know what they are after, and yes, it makes you mad, but she also knows what they are after, and seeing you not freak out over it will show her you trust her. Other men make you look better.
  13. One of the most important things to remember is to let her be herself and be free. The harder you pull her towards you the more she will push away.
  14. Gentle teasing is OK! If she does something silly lovingly call her a dork or something (example: if she gets the hiccups make playful mocking hiccup sounds back). Compliment her at least once a day and never make fun of her physical flaws!
  15. Set boundaries and let your needs be known. Don't be afraid to stick up for yourself but be the bigger person to stop the fight by giving her a hug or telling her that it is more important to see her happy then to win an argument. You will be rewarded instead of having a sourpuss for the next few days.

Tips

  • Protect her. If someone is hurting her; make sure they know she is with you and you don't want their hands all over her.
  • Always open doors.
  • If you see somebody dissing her tell them to back off.
  • Call her every once in a while.
  • Always find time for a romantic date/dinner.
  • If she says that she feels ugly today. Let her know that she is always beautiful to you.
  • Girls are only as freaked out about your issues as you are yourself! So calm down bro.
  • Make her feel beautiful every time you are with her,and give her the respect you do to your mother.
  • Pull the chair for her when she's about to sit.
  • Always remember to text her even if you are too busy. Like 'good morning,good afternoon', etc.
  • Hug her!
  • Provide for her. It's not that you should pay her bills after your first date. But if you eat up her refrigerator without bringing any groceries once in a while, chances are she will conclude you are not going to provide for her in the future either.
  • If she has kids, always bring something for the kids. She will be more impressed than if you bring her the most expensive gift.
  • Show your affection in public.
  • Be playful, and funny. even if this means a tickle on the sofa or a piggyback ride around the park!
  • Although it's good to do all this, but remember just to be your self don't change who you are for someone! They will like you for who you are.
  • If she is tired, let her cuddle. This will show her you're there for her and you care about her.

Warnings

  • Don't overdo it.
  • Remember to be yourself.
  • This guide doesn't explain personal issues that everyone faces. Even if you do your best, life happens. Don't put yourself down if you were always there for her but she ended the relationship over more complicated reasons.
  • Not all women are the same, so not all women would enjoy having a boyfriend who acts this way. If your girlfriend doesn't respond well to these steps, stop and try something else!
  • Simply find someone else if you can't be yourself with her because you deserve better!

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