Find Out Who Your Spouse Is Having a Cheating Affair with
There are many methods in finding out who your spouse is having a cheating affair with. This article will explore some of the most common.
Steps
- Check your telephone and/or cell phone bills. Look for any abnormal phone numbers that you do not recognize. Understand that not every phone number that you do not recognize will lead to a person that your spouse is having a cheating affair with. But you might find the proof you need. Call each unrecognizable number and wait to see who answers. If it's someone of the opposite gender from your spouse, explain that you had found their number on your spouse’s, and your phone bill , and were curious as to what it is. Understand, however, that you have to take whatever they tell you at face value.
- Listen carefully when your spouse talks about coworkers of the opposite sex. Is there one in particular he or she spends a lot of time with, goes on business trips with, or helps out more than normal? Some men like to hide their paramours in plain sight.
- Hire an Find a Cheating Spouse Investigator. Find one in your local newspaper, phone book, or hire one that someone that you know has used before. Sometimes this method can prove to be very costly, so make sure you can afford it.
- Use a digital camera or webcam to spy on your spouse. Set it up in the bedroom, since this is where most affairs take place. Know, however, that if it is found your relationship is probably over.
- Track them on the internet. If your spouse has been cheating over emails, you can take the email address that have been writing to and type it into a Google or Yahoo search. This will often link you to tons of websites that email is registered with, often revealing a name, online identities, and sometimes addresses and phone numbers.
- Confront your spouse, but ONLY after you have a significant amount of evidence. Track your spouse’s routine and attempt to catch him or her in the act, or at least see if he or she is lying to you.
Warnings
- Don't think that just because a man talks about a woman all the time in your presence, he must not be cheating on you with her. If she were really just a friend, would he be visiting her every weekend?
- Be wary, if you are caught spying on your significant other, you will be the betraying and untrustworthy one and will likely ruin your relationship.
