Judge a Woman's Character

If you want to get a girlfriend who will treat you well, it's important that you learn to detect a woman's character quickly.  Here are some vital signs to be on the lookout for when first interacting with a woman.

Steps

  1. See if she speaks negatively about many other people, including all her ex boyfriends.  If she only has bad things to say about everyone else, chances are she won't think fondly of you after a while either.  On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the positive about people, she will probably be a much better girlfriend for you as well.  
  2. Be on the lookout to see how she treats others.  For example, if you two are out at a cafe, restaurant, or coffee shop, how does she treat the employees, waiters and waitresses?  Is she abusive or is she sensitive? Kindness is free, so there is no excuse to be a miser with it.
  3. Ask her what are her top values in life, and ask her to be specific.  If she focuses on things that are purely superficial, like fame and wealth, chances are she won't stick it out through the rough patches in life with anyone when she is in a relationship with them.  On the flip side, if she values loyalty, honesty, trust, and health, chances are she will appreciate a good man who treats her well.     
  4. Behave in a casual relaxed manner. This is important, because in order to get a woman to reveal her character, it's essential that you don't make her feel judged for being herself.  So try to be as relaxed as possible when interacting with a woman. Asking her about her values must be done in a way where she does not feel like there is a right or wrong answer. Don't come across as being too serious, or she will only present to you her "formal" self which is more of an act, rather than who she really is naturally.  
  5. Make note if she is the kind of person who is able to apologize and own up to making a mistake.  If she is not able to do this, she will be a horrible person to have a relationship with, for her ego is so big that she can't admit her mistakes or learn from them.
  6. Pay particular attention to how she behaves when she is under stress.  If she is still behaving in a way that is kind and honest and sensitive, she is proving to be an amazing woman.  However, if she becomes spiteful, hateful, or abusive, this is an indicator of how she will be in the future when under any type of stress.  And life definitely will have its stressful moments, so you can be sure such a woman will behave badly again in the future.
  7. Listen very carefully when she speaks, because most people give away their personalities very quickly without realizing it.  This is because most people don't consciously try to behave badly, so they all think they are great even if in fact they are abusive or cruel.       

Tips

  • One of the greatest signs of a woman's personality is if she makes great efforts to try to understand you.  If she makes a consistent effort to try to understand you and to make you feel respected, this is definitely a reason to continue dating her.
  • Make sure you are not constantly asking her questions , and tell her about yourself.

Warnings

  • It's crucial to pick up on what a woman is saying, rather than just be focused on "picking up" women, if you want to actually get a woman that is the right match for you as a great long-term girlfriend.

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