Make Him Notice You in a Classroom

You get excited when you see him and when you realize you two have the same class together, the thrill pushes further. However, the question lures you in frustration. Does he know I exist? To make someone recognize your existence, first you must follow simple, playful moves.

Steps

  1. Do Your Homework. Besides your actual curriculum, study and understand his routine. Where does he normally sit? Is he early, on time, or late to class? Who is his sit mate? Is he the kind that runs off after class ends or does he typically take his time packing his stuff and maybe the type that talks to the professor? Everybody has a routine, understand his.
  2. Learn about him. Familiarizing his "ways" should be a breeze because most students have routines. Routine like, sitting on a specific spot all the time, or hanging out with specific groups. Once you understand his specific ways, then you can make your move.
  3. Make an entrance. Making an entrance is a performance; it is here that you capture an audience's attention. It is crucial that you capture a crowd and not just one person's attention. You can use many things to make an entrance; make your walk noticeable, dress to impress, bite your lips and pout your lips out when you "showed up late", take off your sunglasses upon entering the classroom, stand in front of the door for 5 seconds "scanning" for available sit.... create an illusion of distraction and you got yourself an audience.
  4. Get Closer. Don't be shy and sit next or besides him. If students already made their unspoken sitting place, then create a space for yourself somewhere where he can actually see you. Find your T-zone. He should be on the end of the point of the T and you need to be either in front of him, on his upper right, upper left. Make sure you’re in his plain sight.
  5. Provide a distraction. It is easy to get distracted in class. Whether it is your laptop or cell phone, one way or another, this guy will eventually get distracted with something, why not you? Distraction is a student of seduction. Let your hair down to show how beautifully long it is. Can you run or twist your pen with your fingers? You can do many things to distract a guy, use your imagination.
  6. Make Small Talk. Yes, talking to him might just be the easiest way for him to notice you. If you can only do a "Hi" then add a little something to that hi, like a smile or a pout lips. If you can't talk, then talk with your eyes, your movement and body. Body language is a powerful thing!

Tips

  • It's frustrating liking someone and thinking that he might not know you exist but do not give yourself a hard time. He probably knows who you are already. Chances are he is playing it cool which most guys normally do. I suggest you distract him with your charms, every girl has a unique charm. You'll never know what could happen.
  • Don't be worried to talk to him when you get the chance, chances are he's trying to work up the nerve to talk to you too!
  • Smile or laugh a lot.
  • If it turns out he doesn't like you, it's not the end of the world. Move on!
  • Act casual. You go to school everyday, so you see him everyday. If it's too full on he might be creeped out.
  • Don't dress like you're on a runway. It's great to look and feel good, but dressing like a model can make you seem untouchable and "above" other people.
  • Try starting a conversation.
  • Be yourself and don't try to impress to much.

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