Pick a Good Gift for Someone Close to You

It's hard to find the perfect gift for someone who is close to you. Not only a boyfriend, girlfriend, best friend, but anyone - like mom or a grandmother. Hopefully this article will make it a little bit easier to get that perfect gift for one of the people you love.

Steps

  1. Think about what they like, but also what maybe a "inside joke" or a memory between you two. Never ask what they want, it sort of ruins the surprise. Just stay aware of things. Like brands, colors, styles, movies, music, things they collect, etc.
  2. Think about places you two have gone. For example: your cousin and you went to a concert, get her something from that band. It's more personal then a gift card.
  3. Make sure to keep it a secret, and if you tell anyone make sure they keep it secret too! Most people say they don't like surprises but they really do.
  4. Make sure the gift looks presentable. For example: if you get a book, wrap it, and add a card. Or if you buy a clothing item make sure it's wrapped in a box or shopping bag.
  5. Personalize a gift, always. Even if it's just a card.
  6. If you don't have money or truly have no idea what to get the person. Make up coupons. Like "I.O.U. one shopping day to anything you want" or "One manicure & pedicure, just us!" for guys "One day doing anything you want, fishing, football, washing cars - you choose". They are all personal and all something you can make memories while doing. You can even bring a camera or buy a disposable for the day.

Tips

  • Always think before buying the gift "will they use it?" If the answer is 'no' put the item back and keep looking.
  • The best gifts say something to the recipient without you saying it. That could be "Yes, I remember what you like."
  • Gift cards should be a last resort sort of thing.
  • Think about the person's personality and buy something that matches.
  • If they drop a hint, that is a good place to start but keep in mind the gift can be as personal or creative as you are comfortable with.
  • Depending on the person making their gift could be your best bet!
  • Pay attention to things they like and say! People usually drop hints.
  • Try asking someone close to the person. For example: girlfriend/boyfriend ask their best friend or parents.
  • If you're looking for a gift for a girl, and if they are self-conscious stay away from clothing.

Warnings

  • Do not give flowers as a gift (unless your girlfriend/wife/lady family member loves flowers). It's a waste of money and they die and eventually get thrown away. Or, give live ones that are growing in a pot still.
  • Giving cash is like saying "I don't know what you like, but hey happy birthday..". It isn't very personal or caring.
  • Do not just take them out to a meal and think "they'll love this"!
  • If there is any other option, don't give a gift card! Nothing is worse than choosing someplace a person has to spend the non-personal money you gave them!

Things You'll Need

  • Time
  • Money
  • Love / compassion/ affection
  • Shopping skills (stores, sales, etc)
  • Good ideas

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