Talk to a Guy You Like on Facebook
OK, so you like a dude but you don't talk to him much in person. Facebook can help. Use these instructions to help flirt over Facebook.
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Steps
- Chat with him. If he is online simply say "hey" but make sure you don't always start the conversation though let him sometimes.
- If he replies, say "cool" or if it is a negative statement say "that's crappy, are you ok?", unless he says "what about you?". Then simply say you are fine or nothing much is really going on.
- Relax. It's over the internet... not even face to face, it's very simple and don't freak out.
- Laugh at his jokes. Laugh at his jokes even when they aren't funny. Guys like that.
- Ask him about something he likes. Maybe he's a music lover, ask him his fave song. Or sports type, ask him his fave team. You get the idea.
- If he isn't online, send him a message asking about a current event going on in your area. Nothing going on? Ask about homework if he goes to your school. If he goes to a different school then say your friend had mentioned that he is funny and you two could be great friends.
- If he talks to you for hours, that is a good sign. Make sure he is single though.
- Talk to his friends. Make sure he likes you before you ever mention a word of you liking him.
- If you ask him out.... never do it online. Always make it in person. Unless you can't.
- Say something funny. But don't try too hard and don't laugh at everything he says. Especially if he's being serious.
- Be confident! If you don't trust yourself, how can he?
Tips
- If he isn't replying don't send 50 messages he will get annoyed.
- Be yourself, don't try to get him to like you for someone you are not.
- Make him laugh. Then get to be his friend. He'll spend more time with you, and he'll start to like you.
- Don't talk about past relationships or other guys.
- Don't play too hard to get but don't seem too easy either.
- Don't make it obvious that you like him, send him a few friendly messages and see where it goes from there.
- Don't make him do all the chatting. His hands will be tired and he won't speak anymore.
- Talk about any news he might not have heard, then he'll want to talk more often.
- If you like the boy and he has a girlfriend don't. Tell him who he wants to be with wait at the right time to ask him.
- Never obsess over him too much.
Warnings
- Don't be all like "poor me" "I hate my life" "no one cares" "I'm a loser" - it's annoying.
- Make sure that you have met him in person or at least one of your friends have met him. You want to be safe.