Talk to a Guy You Like on Facebook

OK, so you like a dude but you don't talk to him much in person. Facebook can help. Use these instructions to help flirt over Facebook.

Steps

  1. Chat with him. If he is online simply say "hey" but make sure you don't always start the conversation though let him sometimes.
  2. If he replies, say "cool" or if it is a negative statement say "that's crappy, are you ok?", unless he says "what about you?". Then simply say you are fine or nothing much is really going on.
  3. Relax. It's over the internet... not even face to face, it's very simple and don't freak out.
  4. Laugh at his jokes. Laugh at his jokes even when they aren't funny. Guys like that.
  5. Ask him about something he likes. Maybe he's a music lover, ask him his fave song. Or sports type, ask him his fave team. You get the idea.
  6. If he isn't online, send him a message asking about a current event going on in your area. Nothing going on? Ask about homework if he goes to your school. If he goes to a different school then say your friend had mentioned that he is funny and you two could be great friends.
  7. If he talks to you for hours, that is a good sign. Make sure he is single though.
  8. Talk to his friends. Make sure he likes you before you ever mention a word of you liking him.
  9. If you ask him out.... never do it online. Always make it in person. Unless you can't.
  10. Say something funny. But don't try too hard and don't laugh at everything he says. Especially if he's being serious.
  11. Be confident! If you don't trust yourself, how can he?

Tips

  • If he isn't replying don't send 50 messages he will get annoyed.
  • Be yourself, don't try to get him to like you for someone you are not.
  • Make him laugh. Then get to be his friend. He'll spend more time with you, and he'll start to like you.
  • Don't talk about past relationships or other guys.
  • Don't play too hard to get but don't seem too easy either.
  • Don't make it obvious that you like him, send him a few friendly messages and see where it goes from there.
  • Don't make him do all the chatting. His hands will be tired and he won't speak anymore.
  • Talk about any news he might not have heard, then he'll want to talk more often.
  • If you like the boy and he has a girlfriend don't. Tell him who he wants to be with wait at the right time to ask him.
  • Never obsess over him too much.

Warnings

  • Don't be all like "poor me" "I hate my life" "no one cares" "I'm a loser" - it's annoying.
  • Make sure that you have met him in person or at least one of your friends have met him. You want to be safe.

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