Act and Look Innocent
Today we live in a world full of misleading appearances. People say and do things they actually do not feel, but the idea is that they still want to look and be perceived as innocent. This goal is hard to achieve since we do not posses the gift of mind reading and we can never truly know the innocence of a person. For plenty of individuals, innocence is a trait they posses without knowing, but for those that do not posses it is a trait they badly crave. Innocence is easily lost and very hard to get back, especially when you do not realize you actually lost it.
Steps
- By being able to control your emotions and not show your true colors in moments of distress, you will be able to fool others easily. However, you should only do this if you are prepared to react this way all the time. It is highly recommended that you behave sincerely with the people you love.
- Be happy with yourself. Be satisfied with the way you truly are, do not put a lot of importance on other people and their opinions. You are innocent as long as you do not hurt others knowingly.
- Try to achieve plenty of good goals. Helping others does create a good impression of you.
- Make sure that you fully understand the consequences of your actions. You can not be perceived as innocent if you continually do the wrong things, and cannot understand the consequences.
- Maintaining your "original" innocence for as long as you can. The more we want to explore our human nature, the more we seem to lose our innocence. We realize way too late that life is better when we still posses some innocence.
Tips
- Keep your voice calm when having a conversation and look people in the eyes.
- Apologize every time you have to or feel you need to.
- Smile a lot, put your happy face on as much as possible.
Warnings
- In the long run, people might be able to tell the difference between you being innocent or not.
- Do not focus only on the way you are perceived by others, it is way more important to be happy with yourself.
- Do not gossip, but if you do gossip support the consequences. Gossip only with people you fully trust.
