Ask a Female Classmate out on a Date

You see that girl in class everyday and always want to ask her out, but you can never seem to get the nerve up to ask her. This article will guide you step by step through doing exactly that. Get started at step one below.

Steps

If You Don't Know the Girl

  1. Smile. Girls love it when you smile at them! A smile can say so many things. It can either be sweet and charming, or just plain fake and cheesy.
  2. Start a Conversation with her. Don't be overly friendly in the conversation, just say "Hi" or "Hey, what's up?" This tells a girl you're friendly.
  3. Get to know her hobbies. This shows girls that you're genuine and you like her for more than your looks.

If You Know the Girl

  1. Because you are already familiar with each other, this might be easier. You could just go up and start a conversation, and ask them if they'd like to go out sometime.
  2. Have a good idea what she like. You should have a good idea of what she likes, so you can give her a small surprise. For example, she likes coffee, so you take her out to get coffee. But you also know that she likes starry nights, so you could get the coffee to go and take her somewhere where the stars shine.

Tips

  • Be sure to keep it friendly first, that way if she turns out not to want a relationship that way, you don't end up getting hurt.
  • Since she is your classmate, she may need help with some homework, or work. This can be an excellent conversation starter.
  • Make sure to figure out what she likes to do, and probably be sure to she's not to absorbed in herself to talk about you. After all you want a relationship, not worship.

Warnings

  • Don't try to help her if you don't know what you're doing, you'll just make yourself look silly.
  • All girls are different so make sure that you don't move too fast by taking her anywhere romantic. Keep it casual for a few. At least until it's clear she "feels" something for you. And then, make sure she feels that way by having a "serious talk". You don't want to get hurt.
  • Compliment about her sometimes (but keep it simple). It would really make her feel nice.

Things You'll Need

  • Yourself.
  • The lovely girl.
  • Maybe money if she likes going to get coffee (or any other place you go to).
  • Info on her like what music she likes, movies she likes, anything that will help you start a conversation faster.

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