Become Emotionally Free
Bombarding your mind continually are your thoughts, some thoughts make you happy, others can make you emotionally sick. Stop this happening by an easy to use method that never fails to help you clear away unwanted thoughts and so unwanted feelings.
Steps
- Know that you are in charge of your life - you are in charge of your thoughts - you are in charge of your health - you are in charge of your happiness. There is nothing anyone can do or say to you to hurt you when you become emotionally free. Most people are like a sponge soaking up all the hurts, disappointments, regrets; ending up in resentment, anger, not to mention depression.
- Make time in your life to clear your head of all the negative thoughts that are going on day in day out. You know the importance of keeping things clean - from your body to your home. If you do not clean up, you end up in filth, and that can be deadly. The same goes for your mind. a negative mind can be deadly too.
- Start by being aware of the reactions you have to people, to situations that are in your life daily.
- Ask yourself, "Am I happy with this person, with this situation." Know that if you're not then the person or situation is pressing your emotional buttons and in turn lowering your energy, and eventually causing illnesses.
- Make time for you! Take responsibility, stop condemning the other person or situation just for five minutes.
- Get yourself a large notebook and a pen. Sit down in a place where you are not going to be disturbed.
- Think about what it is that is annoying you - hurting you - angering you.
- Head your paper with the following. I am angry because - I am hurt because - I am disappointed because - I am sad because - you may think of other headings.
- Take one of the above and brainstorm - keep writing until you cannot think of anything else to write. I am hurt because Mary said I looked a mess. I am hurt because I think Mary thinks I look old. I am hurt because she is so unkind to me. I am hurt because she doesn't criticize other people - only me. I am hurt because she picks on me all the time. So on........ until nothing else comes to mind.
- Choose another sentence and brainstorm again. I am angry Mary dares to criticize me. I am angry that she has the audacity to treat me this way. I am angry that she treats me as if I am totally incapable - and so on.
- Cover every sentence until you cannot think of anything else to say. You may find you sigh during the process - that's a good inclination that you are getting it all out of your mind.
- Notice after you have done this exercise how all the thoughts have gone, leaving your mind clear and you more feel emotionally free. If the thoughts haven't all gone then know there is still more work to do.
- Spend time each day cleaning out your mind of all unwanted thoughts - even from your past. If you have some resentments that are still lingering know that they are lowering your energy and leading and/or will lead to some form of ill health.
Tips
- Spend time on you.
- Know that a positive mind creates a wonderful life for you.
- Think before you speak.
- Take responsibility for your life.
- Know that the more writing - the more work you do, the nearer you become to complete emotional freedom when nothing any one says or anything that happens will hurt you any more.
Warnings
- Don't blame others.
- Resentment, anger, hate, etc can cause serious illnesses.
- Don't try to get even with others.
- A mind that is negative is a mind that creates unhappiness and illness.
Things You'll Need
- Pen and paper
- Time for yourself
- Dedication
- Love and Forgiveness
