Determine if an Online Guy Is Interested in You

Chatting with someone online? Can't tell if he is flirting with you or not? Want to know more? Read this article!

Steps

  1. Look at the website that you are on. Probably, if it's something like Webkinz, that website doesn't allow you to type what you want, so he probably isn't in to you, since he cannot state it himself. Omegle, Facebook, Twitter and Facebook are more helpful. He can say whatever he wants to say, therefore, he may not lie to you. Keep in mind that some websites are more protected than others.
  2. If he sends you a picture of himself (or multiples) looking all spiffed up. He doesn't have to be wearing a tux, but most guys use a thing called 'swag' to impress you. If he seems like a trying too hard guy, too cool type of guy, he is probably just trying to impress you.
  3. Does he ask you questions? Type of things like, "Do you have any siblings? Are you adventurous? What is your IQ?" he is just getting to know you more, not being nosy. But if he is being too personal, don't answer. Often guys want to know more about you do if they can decide how perfect you are....
  4. If he wants to dirty talk or trade nude pictures, he isn't into you, he is just a horny loser. Guys like this will pretty much take up any girl who accepts this offer, you are nothing special to them.
  5. Watch out if he brags about himself. Again with the impressing.
  6. If he suggests you guys meet up, consider it, but not to his bedroom! Again with the horny loser! (SEE WARNINGS)

Tips

  • If you have a relationship, stop the guy from flirting, don't trade pics. That's not respectful for your boyfriend. If you're not happy in your relationship, leave.
  • If you aren't interested in him, tell him nicely, but not straight out if he hasn't told you that he likes you. If he didn't tell you but you can sense it, say something like, "I have this boyfriend, {fake name}, yeah, he is amazing!". Lying is okay in that case, rather than saying, "I don't like u sorry!". If he does say he likes you, say something like, "I'm sorry I don't feel the same way exactly..". Don't say the same thing about a boyfriend because he may think your a whore for talking to him with a boyfriend. (which you're not!)
  • If you're into him, flirt around, give compliments and maybe make the first moves.

Warnings

  • If he threatens you, makes you feel uncomfortable, etc., disconnect, block and/or report him immediately and tell someone you trust.
  • Don't send a picture of yourself unless he sends one first. There are some creeps. Just to be on the safe side, don't send one at all. Or a fake.
  • Only about 23% of relationships started online work out. Don't be disappointed if you aren't one of them!
  • Don't meet him without telling a parent. Let your parent drop you off to the place and stay for a while. It may be safe to bring a pocketknife (just to be safe)!

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