Get a Girl to Go out With You in Sixth Grade

Sixth grade is a time when boys begin becoming interested in girls, but they are not always sure how to interact with the opposite sex, so they may need some help. Here are some steps and tips to help a boy get a girl to go out with him. Be aware, if your parents do not want you dating, it is your choice to ask them if you can have permission to go out.

Steps

  1. Pick the right girl. It doesn't matter what's on the outside, it matters what's on the inside. She would probably turn out to be kinda cute or pretty though, but always look on the inside. Get a girl that you can trust and has a good reputation. I mean, you probably don't want a really ugly girl to be your girlfriend, but you also don't want to get the hottest girl either. Be wise about who you choose.
  2. Now that you picked your girl, start a conversation. If you're shy, try just walking up to her and saying "Hi!" at lunch or in the hall. If she's hanging out with her friends try to at least talk to her or try to catch her eye while walking past. If you know her to have a sense of humor try to say something that will make her laugh.
  3. Remember that girls like a guy that has good hygiene. You should shower a lot and DO NOT put too much cologne on. You may think it smells good but it may be a little strong and the girl might be scared to go around you.
  4. Watch for signs. If she tries to flirt, that's a good sign. She likes you too. Don't try to ask her out right there though. She might say no because she just started liking you.
  5. Now that you're good friends, you can start texting or E-mailing each other. Ask her if she has a phone. If she says yes ask her for her phone number.
  6. Ask her out! If she says yes then ask her if she wants to go to the movies. If she says no then ask if it was awkward for her. That will cool her off. She will probably laugh and say kinda.
  7. Try again if she says no, but wait for a couple of weeks.

Tips

  • Stay calm when you ask her out.
  • Don't ask her out in front of your best friend, she might think it's a dare.
  • Become friends first. Once you feel like she might like you more than as just a friend, make your move. Don't wait too long, girls often change their mind quickly.
  • Don't be a stalker! If you see her talking to other guys, don't freak out, she may only be friends with these guys.
  • If she's in any of your classes and you need to work in groups or partners, see if she'd want to work with you. This is a good way of getting to know her better and to make her like you.
  • Try to talk to her or talk with other girls for advice or listen to guys with girlfriends and try to get some advice from them.
  • If you are in 6th grade, you might not get a girlfriend fast. It takes good time.
  • If you want to get to know each other more on the first date, going on a movie date may not be the best choice. Try getting together somewhere where you can talk and get to know each other.
  • Don't Rush it, try to get to know the girl better before you ask her out. Give some nice paragraphs and cute sayings to win her over.
  • If you like a girl make sure she likes you too or things might get awkward and she might never talk to you again.
  • Make sure she doesn't have a boyfriend.
  • Try to be acquired and funny at the same time.
  • Make sure she really is interested in you, like in how you make her laugh, how you act or how you look.
  • Don't be afraid of her.
  • Always try to help her. If she drops something in class and you sit close to her you can grab it for her or if she needs help getting something go ahead and help her. But don't ALWAYS be there, every now and then don't do it, it might creep her out or make her start thinking you like her before you want to ask her out.

Warnings

  • If she doesn't really like you like that, don't take it personally; she may not be ready for a boyfriend!

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