Get to Know a Girl Before an Arranged Marriage

This article is for those people who are about to go for an arranged marriage. This will be helpful as it may make you more focused and clear with your search.

Steps

  1. Be certain about your choice. The initial step in this process is a clear and unequivocal approach in searching for a girl, whether it’s by family search, internet basis, or friends/ relative suggestion. Everyone has different dreams and these should be the main focus, and then make other priorities.
  2. Involve your family. Once you are ready to meet a girl, make sure you discuss the key points which your family wants considered. Also, your family should be involved in the conversation at some level, as the girl should be clear-minded about what you are both expecting and how much she can direct.
  3. Dress sensibly. There is no need to dress in your best dress or try to dress in the latest fashion. Dress up one level from what you are already doing in your daily routine, so that more of your natural side is shown, and please don't try to be a swank.
  4. Talk and listen. When on the first meeting, try to talk about your main goals, focus and expectations. Also try to watch for the girl's reaction, respect her preferences and likes, and have high regard for her achievements. This will make her feel comfortable, gratified and fulfilled by the meeting.
  5. Get the number of meetings right. This is very important, as one should not exceed more than 5 meetings. More meetings will make things confusing; it is better to see the simpler side of her, which will make it easier for you.
  6. Get maximum time between the first meeting with the girl and the wedding. This will help you to know more about the girl
  7. Talk to the girl and ask questions about her. If she seems uninterested or she is not interested, leave immediately. You don't want a girl who doesn't listen when you talk even if she is a rich beautiful girl.You marry to have a healthy family relation not a rich unsatisfied one

Tips

  • And lastly, if a love marriage can't be arranged, an arranged marriage can transform into love.
  • And specially people who are looking for a ‘cool’ kind of spouse – there is no such thing which is cool.
  • We might have so many questions and worries about the girl whom we meet for an arranged marriage, but once the marriage becomes fixed, all the questions get their answers, all the negatives become positives, and all settles well with our partner in time.

Warnings

  • If she laughs at everything you say, even if it's not a joke, you may want to know more about her. She may be marrying for the money you are having. But not all girls are like that, so don't worry.

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