Have a Good Relationship in Middle School(Girls)

Having a relationship in middle school that is successful, can be very difficult. But it is do able. These are some tips for the girl to have a good, fun, happy relationship in middle school.

Steps

  1. Make sure it's clear that your dating. It's very important to make sure that you BOTH know you guys are dating, that clears up any awkwardness between you two.
  2. Tell others. Your friends and his friends should know what you two are doing. Create some good gossip to go around the school that lets people know that you guys are a couple. That way no other girls try to take your man.
  3. Be friends with his friends. That way when you're with him and his friends come up, you won't feel left out or awkward.
  4. Be sweet. Go to his locker between classes, sit with him at lunch, partner with him in the classes you have together. This will show him you care, and it will make your relationship more fun.
  5. Go places. Take him and a group of friends to the mall, the park, or even the back of the school on the weekends (if allowed).
  6. Don't be judgmental of him. If you find out something about him, or learn something that is a little odd, don't make him feel insecure. He will do the same for you when he gets to know you a little better.
  7. Trust Him!!!! There will probably be a lot of drama during your relationship, just remember, he is usually right. Sometime, you shouldn't trust what people say, even your friends sometimes. Just ask him what the truth is, and usually it is no big deal.
  8. Find common interests. See what clubs he does, what sports he likes, and his favorite type of music. If you have something in common, great! If not, try some of those things and you might actually like them.
  9. Show affection! Hug him goodbye, wave in the hall, or let him put his arm around you.



Tips

  • Don't try to be someone else, or it won't work out. If he likes you he will accept who you are.
  • Don't be afraid to become friends at first. Some of the most meaningful relationships begin with a strong friendship.
  • Don't tolerate disrespect, tell him how you feel.
  • Talk to him at least once a day but don't force a conversation if you have nothing to talk about.
  • Don't be square or he'll lose interest in you!
  • Make sure your friends aren't weird around him.
  • Be happy around him. Being happy with him will make him feel like a good boyfriend, and create a positive vibe between you two.
  • Never forget the 3 Fs-Flirt, Funny, Phone.

Warnings

  • When you break up there will be drama, gossip, a little awkwardness between you two, and one annoying question. That question is- Who broke up with who? It's good if you broke up with him, that's easy to say. But if he broke up with you, and your embarrassed to say so...it's ok. Change the subject or just tell the truth. It doesn't make you weak.
  • Never be disgusting, rude, annoying, clingy, or obsessive!
  • He will catch on. If he is not doing some of the things on this list, if you do them, then he will most likely get the message.

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