Spot if Your Boyfriend Is a User, Cheat or a Player

Let’s face it. Cheaters get busted. But what do you do if you suspect your boyfriend is cheating with no solid evidence? While the process of busting your guy with another girl is traumatic, it’s better then wasting your time on an unfaithful creep. These steps will help you nail a philandering boyfriend.

Steps

  1. Know that people do cheat and you need to keep an eye out for it. You can observe them and most of the time you'll find your answer. They do cheat and so you shouldn't be naive. Take care of yourself and your safety.
  2. Take note if they have many plans and can't seem to commit just to you. They have many other plans and people to see. They're always busy and they don't have time for you. They will be confused about you and your status sometimes. They rarely ever made the initial calls.
  3. Watch if they talk to other people when you're on a date. You hear a girl voice. They hide their phone calls from you. They go somewhere else to take their phone calls. They will text you instead of calling you sometimes.
  4. They may act strange and bizarre around you. They act weird. You sense something is going on. Just trust your hunches and most of the time you're right. You can check them out by observing them from a distance to see if they're with someone else.
  5. He doesn't have to hide. If he's hiding then that's your clue. When you're with him and he picks up the phone and you hear a woman's voice. This is also a clue.
  6. Keep in mind: a man can have female friends or sisters, and moms but if he seems to be engaging in the conversation then you know it's no good. You can tell by the way that he talks on the phone. Is it a long conversation and does he seems to smile a lot or feel happy when taking that phone call? If he's just frank and hang up shortly then it could be a family member
  7. Don't be afraid to ask him who he's talking to. You can do that and his answer will let you know if he's lying or telling the truth. If he seems to cover it up by brushing it out of the way then you know it could be another girl.
  8. If he says something like, "Oh, its nobody" , then you should know that it's somebody. When they try to brush it away that you know it's a problem.



Tips

  • Look for the red flags. This is a fairly vague statement. Red flags can be as simple as a sudden increase in overtime at work or as blatant as not coming home at at night. There is one thing about red flags that sets them apart from typical actions. Usually, your intuition kicks in. Many people disregard their intuition. However, usually if you think something is wrong, there is. Live by this saying, "Where there’s smoke, there’s fire." Listen to the hearsay. It’s without a doubt that the he said she said stuff gets old but many times there is validity to what you hear. While you don’t have to react on every rumor you hear, you should always look into it, especially if you’re already suspicious.
  • Check up on him. You’re probably thinking this step is over the top. However, if your guy tells you one thing, he shouldn’t have anything to worry about if he’s not lying. Right? The key to this step is to not take this to the extreme. There’s a difference between being subtle and checking up on him and being psycho and stalking.

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