Stop Having a Bad Attitude Towards People
Okay, you're tired of being a bully and having a bad attitude. You have already lost many friends for behaving badly towards people. So, now you want to be a nicer person? Well this will help you get on the path to redeeming yourself and turning over a new leaf.
Steps
- Calm down and stop. Think of people you've bullied and cursed at. Take note of their name so you won't forget them. Think of the reason you behaved like this towards them - was it jealousy? Arrogance? Just pure anger? Become willing to apologize as soon as possible.
- When you find those people in your life, make sure to talk to them politely. Tell them how you feel.
- Offer to help someone when they need, like helping someone to buy their football jersey or helping someone that doesn't understand why you get mad so easily. Be friendly.
- Show people you're different now, when you walk by or talk to those people that you've bullied and cursed out or even hit before, smile and say good morning. Be very nice.
- Remember that everybody can change and deserves a chance to prove it, so do you. Don't be afraid to talk to those people and say you're sorry.
- If you’re a gardener and do not weed your garden…the weeds and plants will grow and take over your once beautiful garden. It’s the same with your beautiful brain. If you don’t weed out the negative thoughts and learn to control them…they will take over.
Tips
- Having a better attitude will give you a better day.
- Some people may find it strange to see you being nice. Don't feel intimidated for it, keep treating them well, they have their reasons to find it strange and it's your chance to show you're a better person now.
- Maybe you used to treat them bad because you had a bad concept of them. Well, remember that everyone has something nice to show, if you're nice to them, they'll be nice to you.
- If you have treated your boyfriend badly as well, remember to apologize to him too.
