Adopt in Texas

Are you ready to adopt but unsure where to begin? If you live in Texas, and want to adopt a child, just follow the steps below.

Steps

  1. Determine if you are eligible to adopt. Texas law provides some basic requirements that prospective adoptive parents must meet. In order to be eligible to adopt in Texas, one must [1]:
    • Be at least twenty-one (21) years of age.
    • Be willing to complete an application and provide references. Prospective adoptive parents will are required to provide references written by family members and non-family members.
    • Be willing to submit to a criminal history check.
    • Be willing to complete a home study. The home study will include interviews, in your home, with all members of the household.
    • Be willing to attend training to learn about the issues children who have been abused or neglected might face.
  2. Decide if you will adopt from the Department of Family and Protective Services DFPS or a private adoption agency.
  3. If you will work with a private adoption agency, locate one in your area. You can find a licensed adoption agency using the DFPS’s Private Adoption Agency listing.
  4. If you will work with the (“DFPS”), attend an adoption information meeting. Adoption information meetings are free of charge and no appointment is needed in order to attend. To find an information meeting near you, select your county from the drop down box located on the DFPS’s Adoption Information Meetings webpage. If no information meeting is scheduled in your area, you will be provided with the contact information for DFPS staff in your area so that you may obtain the adoption information.
  5. Register for and attend a Parent Resource Information Development Education (“PRIDE”) class. PRIDE is a training program provided by Child Protective Services (“CPS”) and required for all adoptive parents. PRIDE consists of sessions on loss and grief, child attachment, and the affects of adopting on a family. To register, call the Metropolitan One Church One Child of Texas, Inc. at,(713) 988-2658.[2]
  6. Complete a home study. A home study must be conducted by a licensed child placement agency and will consist of an in-home inspection and interview with all household members. Talk to DFPS or your private adoption agency about scheduling your home study. Minimum standards used in conducting the home study can be located on the DFPS’s website on its Guidelines for Home Studies page. Issues that will be addressed during the home study include [3]:
    • Motivation. The caseworker who conducts your home study will ask about your reasons for adopting and how long you have been considering adoption. They are looking for an indication that you want to love and nurture children, and connect them to lifelong relationships.
    • Applicants' feelings about themselves, their parents, and their childhood. Your caseworker will ask you about your childhood, how you were disciplined, and what you would do differently than your parents.
    • Family interaction. You will be asked to provide details about your current and previous relationships, your religion, family rules, your extended family, and how you handle stress.
    • Home environment. The caseworker will look at your neighborhood, home maintenance, housekeeping standards, and sleeping arrangements. You should be prepared to discuss your financial situation, safety issues (such as firearms, stairs, and medications), and your ability to manage money.
    • Dealing with separation and loss. Be prepared to discuss any losses you have suffered and how you dealt with them, as well as how that has equipped you to deal with losses suffered by the adopted child, such as his or her birth parents, and placement in your home.
    • Dealing with children who have been physically, or sexually abused and/or neglected. Your caseworker will want to know about your understanding of the dynamics of child abuse and neglect and your ability to help the child with their experience of abuse or neglect.
    • Child management and discipline. During your home study, you will be asked about how you were disciplined as a child, how you feel about the discipline now, how you intend to discipline the child, and how to make your plan consistent with DFPS’s disciplinary policy.
  7. Look for a child to adopt. There are several ways that you can locate children awaiting adoption, including:
    • Using the DFPS search tool. If you are working with DFPS to adopt a child, you may search for children waiting for a forever family using the DFPS Search for Children Waiting for Adoption database.
    • Register for a free account at AdoptUSKids.org. Adopt USKids allows register users to access child and sibling group profiles, create an online profile for your family, and inquire about children with a click of the mouse.
    • Search the National Adoption Center’s Children Waiting for Adoption database. The database includes photographs and information about each child’s abilities, interests, and hobbies.
    • Look for children awaiting adoption on the Adopt America Network website. The Adopt America Network specializes in finding homes for hard to place and special needs children.
    • View photos and profiles of children awaiting adoption at Children Awaiting Parents (“CAP”), and organization dedicated to finding homes for foster children.
    • Meet waiting children at the Northwest Adoption Exchange. The Exchange provides photos and profiles of children awaiting adoption in Washington, Oregon, Idaho, and Alaska.
  8. Select a child. Before choosing a child, learn all that you can about the child’s background and birth family, interests, hobbies, and family ties. You want to choose a child that will fit right in with your family, without too much adjustment.
  9. Complete any required pre-placement visits. DFPS or your adoption agency may require pre-placement visits to ensure that your family and home are ready for the child you have chosen.
  10. Bring your child home. Once you have completed all of the pre-placement and home study requirements, DFPS or your adoption agency will make arrangements for you to bring your child home.
  11. Hire an adoption attorney. Once your child has been placed in your home, you will need to go through the Court process of making the child legally yours. You may choose to do this yourself, but the process is complicated, and an experienced adoption attorney will be able to move your adoption along smoothly and quickly. You can find an adoption attorney in your area, using one or more of the following resources:
  12. Attend a final adoption hearing. You, your adopted child, and any other children you have should attend the final adoption hearing. Your attorney will be present as well. The Court will ask you a few basic questions, review the file to ensure that all requirements have been met, and sign the adoption decree.
  13. Ensure that your child’s birth certificate is reissued. In order to have your child’s birth certificate reissued showing you (and your spouse is applicable) as the birth parents, you or your attorney will need to complete a Certificate of Adoption by following the instructions provided on page 2 of the Certificate.

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Sources and Citations

  1. Jump up ↑ http://www.dfps.state.tx.us/Adoption_and_Foster_Care/Get_Started/requirements.asp
  2. Jump up ↑ https://www.dfps.state.tx.us/Adoption_and_Foster_Care/Adoption_Partners/One_Church_One_Child/houston_pride.asp
  3. Jump up ↑ https://www.dfps.state.tx.us/Adoption_and_Foster_Care/About_TARE/Foster_Care/homestudy_guidelines.asp#top
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