Be a More Attractive Person

To be a more attractive person, you must be real. Being attractive is in the eye of the beholder.First and far most important , is how you feel about yourself.

Steps

  1. Don't let the judgment of others determine your sense of self. People can make bad judgments about character and looks when they're not caring about another person. Instead, form realistic assessments of your attributes by asking those you trust and love to name the five best things about you. Take those to heart and realize that those are what people who really matter see in you.
  2. Avoid materialism. Materialism is a form of making us all desire sameness, including with looks. Being attractive is a marketable commodity when marketing gets involved and you can end up feeling that you need to buy a whole raft of stuff to look vaguely good. It's not necessary; just avoid the hype and realize you're great the way you are!
  3. Be real. It's easy to be artificial when we live in a society that expects us to be "made over" at the drop of a hat. Instead, aim for letting your real self shine through all the time. Sure, there are occasions when you need to put on an act to get through something like public speaking or appearing for the media, but on the whole, it's perfectly easy to be real.
  4. Kill the voice of others in your head. Don't be driven by what people seem to expect of you. Instead, forge your own path and love the person who is taking that path - you! Be you and nobody else. Make sure that they see you shining through you and not thier opinions about you.
  5. Be well groomed. Everyone looks good well groomed; neatness, cleanliness and tidiness are achievable by all. Wear neat clothing - it doesn't have to be expensive, just clothing that fits you well and looks good, and that makes YOU feel good.
  6. Be honest, polite, and well mannered. These make all people appear attractive because courtesy takes into account the needs of others.
  7. Just be yourself and treat people with respect and live life right, to the best of your knowledge, and you should be attractive to everyone you meet, in one way or another.

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