Be Cute No Matter What Your Age
Do you want to live a fun, cute life? Living a cute lifestyle does not mean directing all your energy to "become" cute or live for cuteness. No. Not at all! This article will tell you how to be cute the easier way, not a lifestyle but for fun!
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Steps
- Don't be mean, rude, or critical of people, but don't be a doormat either. If you don't like something about someone, try to say it in the cutest, most polite way possible. Chances are that person won't get offended and think about their actions... but if they don't, then they weren't really that much worthy were they?
- Laugh a lot, be happy, be sweet and smile. Cute is all about being positive and friendly; make sure your personality reflects this. always try to have a better outlook of things, rather than let negativeness pull you down. that will help you overcome problems and in the long run you'll be able to help others as well.
- Being innocent is an asset to be cute. but in honest truth you cannot revert to be childishly innocent after a certain age. Even so, you can revive some of that spark in various ways like staying away from sensationalist publications and shows, not watching adult videos or magazines, things like that.
- Be careful about what you say. Sweet innocent girls don't swear like sailors. Don't pick on people; never laugh at someone's misfortune or when someone gets hurt. Instead of laughing at them, stand up for them.
- Don't be too loud. If you want to look sweet, don't bawl and shout at people. Talk to them, and be nice and gentle, and this will help you be cute no matter what age you are.
- Don't get in fights or pick on people. For one thing, it shouldn't be done, second, innocent girls must avoid this.
- Keep your jewelry simple. Charm bracelets, pearls, and pendants are great. Do not wear something crazy and flashy. And don't wear too many accessories at once. Wear maximum 2 necklaces and max. 3 bracelets on each hand. Your choice, just don't overdo it.
- Use eye contact. Eye contact is a way of engaging others directly. It shows interest, it shows that you are attempting to bring this person into your sphere and keep them there. Don't stare though, just use common sense and remember that it is about communicating with other people, not sucking them into your sphere of influence.
- Be interested in others. Attractiveness comes from being happy, vivacious and bubbly. This translates to being a person who engages others in conversation, takes an interest in what others say and shows a genuine concern for the other person's interests. Active listening is a very important part of appearing attractive to others.
- Practice good hygiene. Smelly people aren't cute.
- Keep up with your schoolwork, get good grades, and read at least one non-school book a week. Just because you're not a gutter girl doesn't mean you have to be a brain dead ditz. Make your mom & dad proud.
- Dress girly and cute. You want be cute on the inside, and the outside. A simple floral sundress with a cute hat and sandals; a t-shirt with a cute picture on it, clean jeans, and fun sneakers... Being girly doesn't mean you can't wear trousers or sneakers, just be more feminine about it. Also don't go overboard childish if that doesn't suit you, but using fun and cute characters like Hello Kitty or the Care bears on your t shirts or an accessory does the trick a million times better than trying to look like a child. You can also use a wide array of colours, not just pastels or subdued ones. You can look cute in neons too, just try not to overdo anything. Keep it simple, girly, and clean.
- Give compliments. Everybody loves someone who sees good in others and makes them feel good. It can be a great conversation starter sometimes too.(Where'd you get your shoes? They're so cute!) Just make sure you mean it; say it in your normal tone of voice, not a squeaky overenthusiastic one, unless that's your normal tone of voice.
- Ask for a real meaning for life - donĀ“t be sweet just to be popular (try to understand who you really are and what kind of life you want to live first!)
- Make curse words into other things (that are cute). For example: The "F" word turns into fudge. ("Oh, fudge!")
Tips
- If you have old clothes you don't wear anymore but still own, donate them to charity. Simple deeds of kindness are an attribute of cuteness and a good heart.
- Just say no to drugs and other nasty stuff.
- Be really nice to everyone.
- Always be really nice to your family, no matter how much they annoy you. It really is important.
- Be confident. Confidence is the best thing on earth.
- Be on good terms with everyone. You never know when you'll need it.
- Try to help people whenever you can. From lending them erasers and pocket money to sharing lunch with friends who forget to bring theirs.
- Be the good sweet girl and tell sweet little jokes.
- Speak up, but not too loudly. Don't be too shy. A tad bit shy can be cute, though.
- It's okay to be girly.
- Always be polite.
- Get a really fun hobby. Ballet is just fabulous for this; it's at the peak of sweet and innocent.
- Have a stuffed animal unicorn or Hello Kitty. That's cute.
- Sometimes expressing your emotions in a diary or journal with a lock on it is a good idea. It's cute too!
- Bejewel things. Cover your cell phone in Swarovski crystals, for example.
- Start a blog on your life or anything you enjoy doing to help get followers,friends or just for fun.
- Don't date until 5th grade, at least. Don't go too far, either.
- Hug people a lot.
- Don't listen to really explicit songs. Try to become repulsed by them.
- Buy a nice cell phone if you can afford one. White and pink are good colors.
- Try to be a buffer in your clique when you have to. That's really sweet; everyone loves that.
- Try to enjoy the simple things. Just washing your hair is really fun!
- Surprise people once in a while. Even really sweet, innocent girls can say something really harsh or perceptive once in a while. Don't be like that all the time, though.
- For extra soft hair, wash with lotion once in a while.
Warnings
- Don't change who you are just to be cute. Fakes aren't attractive.
- Don't let your need to be cute dominate over all else. Some people feel the need to be happy and bubbly all the time, but by doing so, they begin to think that they can never be upset. They become a crying shoulder for others, having to carry the weight of their own problems, as well as the problems of those around them. Everybody needs to release and cry sometimes, so don't think that in order to be cute, you must always be peppy and effervescent.
- Don't think that being cute is being fake around others; it should come naturally. Your cuteness should come from the inside and project itself outward.
- Being cute is not about being rude or being too trendy or being a slave to fashion, nor is it about memorizing phrases from a TV show or popular book. It is about being the best person you can be and letting that shine forth.
- Do not change your voice to an annoying squeaky wannabe cute tone. People will see right through you and that's not what you're aiming for.
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