Enjoy Life As a Young Female

As a young female, do you want to live your life completely? Follow these steps and tips and learn to respect yourself, having fun as a young female! Don't be discouraged if it doesn't work the first time, and if it requires huge changes in your life. You're a wonderful and beautiful person, learn to know that, and embrace life!

Steps

  1. Learn to know yourself. Take a lot of time to think about yourself. Take some time every now and then and sit down and try to write down your goals for your life in general and small stuff in your everyday life you want to change. You only have this life, so if it's something you don't like about yourself, on the outside or/and on the inside, you can change it, and you can do it now! You don't have to look at yourself as the most gorgeous girl in the world, if you can't, but just be open to the possibility that you could be. You can do exactly what you want, as it's your life.
  2. Make a change. Whether it's a change in you appearance or within yourself, start off the new area with a mark that separates your new self from the old one. Don't be discouraged if you fail with the change the first time, since old habits are often hard to get rid of. Just know that it's possible.
  3. Get a role model. Find at least one person to look to for guidance. It could be somebody close to you or a celebrity who you admire in some way. They usually say that admiration for a person means that you find similar features in yourself. Don't try to be exactly like the other person. Just to look up to someone can change the way you look at different things. If you want, get different role models for different parts of yourself, like fashion, personality, talents and so on.
  4. Start moving your body. You do not necessarily have to really exercise, but moving your body makes a lot of difference. Just something like dancing, whether you're out or at home, or involving different activities makes a difference. When you're moving, you get endorphins flowing in the blood that will help you to radiate the sense of well-being and that will help you enjoy being you.
  5. Start to flirt. A big part of a young female's life are guys (or girls!). Young girls are at a state in our life when we want to feel beautiful and accepted, and especially from guys (or girls!). We want to feel wanted, but to feel wanted, you have to want. A flirt is not a big deal, but a smile or a glance can make you feel really daring, happy and pretty in a way. Never put yourself on a lower level than the person you like. You are just as worthy of love, and the people that can't look behind appearance or first impressions aren't worth your time.
  6. Friendships with girls. Surround yourself with lovely girls that you feel comfortable hanging out with. To be a girl you should have good friendships with girls around you, then you can together help each other and boost each others confidence. This does not exclude friendships with guys, since they can be good friends as well. But just make sure to find friends that are girls to get along with, because they go through similar stuff as you and can be helpful in areas where boys are not.
  7. Know your Beliefs. Knowing your beliefs and having them will give you confidence in who you are as an individual.
  8. Don't be too serious. Remember that everything is not dead-serious-stuff. Learn to laugh about yourself and silly things that get blown-up. This is your only life as far as you know, make the best of it. Try not to let the bad things take over your life, but take time for your feelings at the same time, the happy and the sad. Life is life, you have to feel sadness to feel happiness, so do not make excuses for yourself and your feelings. Make your final goal to enjoy life!

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