Show a Boy How Much You Like Him
Have you been crushing on a boy for awhile now? Do you want to show him how much you like him? wikiHow is here to help! With the right attitude, a good plan, and a bit of confidence, you'll be getting his attention in no time.
Steps
- Make sure you are in contact with him. You can sit next to him at lunch, walk to and from school with him, sit with him on the bus, and so on. However, pick up on his signals, if he doesn't want to be bothered. (It could be you or girls in general that he is not ready for.)
- Learn his interests. Ask him a simple question like: "Do you have any pets?" If he says no, then ask something else. However, if he says yes, ask about the pet such as: What animal is it? What does it like to do? What is its name? And so on. However, if he doesn't have any pets, but he likes pets, then you can talk about your pets (if you have any). You can follow this procedure with any simple question such as: Do you have any hobbies, for example.
- Impress the boy with your skills. Boys like it when you have good and interesting abilities. Even just doing something small, like showing him what you are working on with your hobby, can show him that you are trying to impress him. That is part of the goal.
- Help him, even if it is just by doing some little thing. Suppose you go to school with him (you could be anywhere with him, though), and he is getting a pencil from the class pencil bin, you can grab a pencil and give it to him. You can slightly touch his fingers and smile. He will like this and probably get an idea that you like him.
- Make sure you are friends with the boy. If you are not friends then try to become friends. It makes it easier to talk to the boy if he thinks of you as a friend. He is more likely to listen.
- Try flirting with the boy by making eye contact and then looking away or "accidentally" bumping into him.
- Once you have built a good friendship, try asking him out. Go to a public place like a museum or miniature golf along with getting a sandwich afterward. If you think that it is weird to ask a boy out because you are a girl, then you can wait for him to ask you out, if you think he likes you and you don't mind waiting. However, you should try building your courage and asking him out, since he will almost certainly say yes. (But be ready if he declines).
Warnings
- Don't be too friendly or too flirty. If you're too friendly you might be categorized as "just a friend", and you wouldn't want that. And if you're too flirty you might come off as desperate and needy, and you wouldn't want that either, huh?
- Keep your temper under control. If you do get upset, hold it within you. Don't yell even when he is NOT around because the word could get to him and he would not like you.
