Express True Feelings to the One You Think Is Just a Friend
Got eyes on a friend? Maybe you should tell her/him how you feel.
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Steps
- Remember throughout it all you are friends. Make sure you really want to take these steps, things will probably change
- Speak to her/him like she/he is human.
- Be honest. Telling lies will get you nowhere. Say what you feel in your heart.
- Express every emotion and describe it. Be careful though, straight up telling a girl/guy you love her/him will probably creep her/him out a bit
- Talk to her/him more often and find out what she/he likes.
- Make her/him feel comfortable around you.
- Then ask her/him out as a friend and let your relationship build on from there.
Tips
- Asking someone to go out with you over the phone, by texting, or over the web is considered wimpy.
- Confront the person face to face. Don't do it over the phone.
- If she/he says she/he isn't interested, don't keep pursuing a relationship, this will only ruin the friendship.
- Be brave. Loving someone is always risky, but men/women who have courage will find love...eventually.
- If you really love her/him, with all your heart, then this should be no problem!
Warnings
- If she/he doesn't like you doesn't love you despite all that you have done, you have to remember she/he was a friend first and foremost. She/he liked being your friend and maybe she/he just doesn't feel that way about you yet.
- Don't overdo it, at least not at first. Telling her/him how much you love her/him is a very good way to gross her/him out. Especially if she/he doesn't know you well. Stick with a simple "I like you" at first.