Get a Boy at Church to Like You
Do you catch him staring at you in youth group? Are you shy around him during church hours? Well then, this article is perfect for you!
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Steps
- If you are in the same class/group as him, then give him a few signs that you like him. If you know he's staring at you then look up slowly at him, hold his gaze, and then slowly smile and look down at your bible or the teacher/preacher.
- Make it almost impossible for him not to notice you. If you're feeling confident, sing a solo during the offering or if your church has a choir, then join it. Use your talents to your advantage and make sure you create a positive image of yourself.
- If you know he likes you, try to be his friend before taking your "relationship" to the next level. Get to know him better! You can do this by starting with small talk. Ask him little things such as 'how has your week been?' or if you already know a bit about him, ask about something he is passionate about (this also opens doors to you complimenting him about his interest or something he does well in).
- If you are feeling confident and believe he likes you also, then ask him to stay after teen class so you can be alone. Use this time to express your true feelings and be honest.
- The couple that plays together, stays together. Don't make fun of him but joke around with him, get to know him, have inside jokes, and if he jokes with you then punch him lightly on the shoulder. It's a great way to make physical contact and to show you're interested.
- Girls can make the first move too! Ladies, don't be scared to take the lead/charge in the relationship.
- Remember to a) stay modest (in your language and image), b) natural and c) true to yourself! After all, being yourself and staying true to your personality is what's going to make him attracted to you and hopefully create a long-lasting relationship. Wear clothes that cover more skin than they show, try a longer skirt and a nice top. You can still look gorgeous without showing lots of skin and he will notice you for it! Finally, watch your language. Avoid using vulgar or offensive words around him and others (if you say something, he might find out and you could potentially create a bad image of yourself in his mind).
Tips
- Mind your manners!
- Wear appropriate yet cute clothing.
- Avoid talking about or hitting on other guys when you're with him. Instead, try to engage in conversation about something he is passionate about and don't be afraid to compliment him ever now and then!
- Be on your best behaviour always (it'll start a good reputation about yourself amongst people in the church and he'll hear about it!)
Warnings
- Find ways to be near him, such as volunteer or go places at times you know he'll be there (but be careful as bumping into each other too often could seem creepy). Remember having a crush and being a stalker are two totally different things!
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