Get a Guy You Like to Talk to You

Are you a very shy girl, shy enough that you are so scared of rejection that you can barely show any signs that you like him?

Steps

  1. Whether you're in a classroom or at a concert, wear clothing that reflects who you are. Do not be fake; how you dress is crucial. If you like goth clothing, wear goth clothing. If you like neon, wear neon.
  2. Make sure he notices you, either walk by him a couple times or look like you're having a good time. Or better yet, actually have a good time!
  3. If you notice he is looking at you, look back and smile. It may take courage but it will be worth it. He'll see you as interested and confident, two things that anyone finds attractive.
  4. If they are confident, they might talk to you, but if they don't, it doesn't mean they're not interested. Sometimes it's okay to be the one to initiate conversation even if it takes courage to do so. Playing 'hard to get' doesn't suit everyone and doesn't attract every guy. You can still grab his attention without it.
  5. Don't stare at him too much or he will start to get creeped out. But keep in mind, its pretty rare that it'll happen. Just stay confident and don't do things that would make you uncomfortable if the tables were turned.
  6. Make sure to smile around him and if he looks at you. I know I've already said to do this, but it's such a good way to grab positive attention.

Tips

  • Just be nice to him, he's probably just as nervous!
  • If he is a skater/punk/emo guy try wearing his style, if you like it. He will surely notice you! But don't change yourself. If you like the style, add little parts of it that will be noticeable without changing yourself. Remember, no boy likes a wannabe or copy.
  • The best thing you can do is to be the one to initiate the conversation. If you're able to build up the courage to initiate a conversation and be confident, then he may be develop more confidence himself. Remember: Guys are just as nervous as you are, talking to him first will break down all fear barriers he may have concerning talking with you.
  • If he acts really weird and just acts weird around you that might mean he likes you. If he is picking on you that also means he has a crush on you. Playful banter and touching is a very obvious sign of affection, for example light hearted teasing or soft poking wars.
  • If you really like him and you don't want any one to know, don't fake not liking him. Just don't tell anyone.
  • If you see him in the halls give him a smile, or say good morning. Be friendly.

Warnings

  • Don't laugh at everything, and if he looks annoyed just play it cool and stop.
  • If he looks at you with a mean look, just give him space.

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