Get over Someone That You Know Doesn't Like You
We have all been through having a crush on someone, but it's hard when you find out they don't like you back. You may be lost and sad and by now, you don't know what to do. I just want you to know that you should trust because I have been there, too. This article will help you with these steps.
Steps
- All this information will be if you are not particularly close or friends with the person. Only for people who have minimum contact with their crush.
- Decide first if you want to get rid of them for good. You must be prepared to get over them and move on. Or else do not read this anymore.
- Cut off any contact you may have with him/her. Examples: Deleting or blocking from social networking websites; avoiding going to similar places unless you have to. By doing this you're giving less of a chance to watch them and get obsessive and start finding reasons to like them even more.
- Do not try to talk to them when unnecessary. Only when it is important that you do so, you want to do everything in your power to stop liking them and by getting to know them you could find more good things to like.
- Write a list of all their bad points. After doing this, keep it somewhere you can look at it, always think of their bad points rather than the good so you have a reason to dislike them.
- try to remember a time that they were not particularly nice to you or annoyed you. Keep this moment of time in your mind, if they could do that, why are they worthy of your time.
- Remember, if they were not willing to make an effort with you; why should you too? They don't like you or want to get to know you, it's their loss and never forget that.
- Spend more time with friends and family. Being with your family and friends is a great way to get over anything or anyone. By spending more time with them, your time will be more occupied and you would have those things ruling your mind rather than the thought of them. Keep socializing.
- If you have imaginations/fantasies of this person in your mind then replace them with someone else. By having an emotional connection with this person in your mind, you will never be able to let go, your mind is the strongest and most powerful thing and if you can convince your mind into not liking him then you can do anything really.
- Check out other guys/girls. There are so many different people out there and if you don't want someone different, there's someone the same but better. Look around, once you find yourself letting go of this person there's a greater chance that you'll meet someone that actually likes you.
- Find new interests or be more involved in activities. Find something different to do. Maybe help around with something, get a job, make a blog, make new friends, start a sport, join a club. Anything you might never have done before or you've always wanted to do.
- Look after yourself, you are more important than some person you barely know. Focus on being a better person or working on your appearance, or meeting new people. Just keep yourself as a huge priority right now.
Tips
- Always tell yourself that you don't like them anymore.
- Always laugh, smile and have a good time.
- But make sure your friends don't think you still like them.
- Talk to other people
- Show your disinterest in them without being mean.
- Don't tell anyone your plans.
- Have a back-up story for why you deleted them from Facebook etc.
- Don't get involved with their friends either.
- You know you're probably over them when you're willing to add them back.
- Dont run away from the person or they will like it just act like they are strangers.
- Sometimes its best not to give into phone calls or text from that person.
Warnings
- Do not instantly fall back just because they're nice to you once.
- Don't be cold, just distant.
- Don't use his friends to get to them.
- Do not try to check over them and to see how they're doing.
