Maintain Your Relationship with Your Girlfriend
Maintaining your relationship with your girlfriend will require a bit of tact and finesse. But when it comes down to it, all you have to do is not look too obsessive while letting her know that you care about her. Oh, and keeping up your good looks and charming personality won't hurt, either. Just don't let her think that you're constantly afraid of losing her or you'll be casting doubt over your relationship. Maintain your confidence and she'll be yours forever.
Steps
- Avoid becoming obsessed. No one likes a stalker. This does not mean not to hang around with her or go places with her a lot. It just means that if it's quite obvious she doesn't want to hang around you, or if she is doing something private (such as a get-together with close friends), then give her some space.
- Do not hit on people continuously, especially not in front of your girl. She could get the feeling that you don't like her. If you hit on her, make sure you don't do it all the time.
- Make sure you smell good -- hygiene is important. No one is going to want to hang around with someone who smells bad.
- Look good. She won't like it if you wear the same thing all the time. Just try to switch it up. You don't constantly have to change outfits. You might even want to joke about how to always wear the same clothes.
- Be nice to her friends. Don't give the impression you are interested in them beyond friendship. This is a big one. If you become friends with her friends, she will love you for it.
- Don't try to force anything on her. If you come out straight away and tell her you are interested in her in "that" way, she may become uncomfortable around you. Keep in mind, some people would prefer you to tell them straight up.
- Don't come on too strong at first. Be casual and cool. You'll know if she wants you to come on stronger. If she is coming on stronger than you are, that generally means you can step it up.
- Do not say that you are going to kill yourself if she gets mad at you, that may make her think that you are slightly obsessive, and have nothing better to live for than her.
- Don't try to rush her into anything, you'll only push her away.
- Don't talk to your friends about other girls. They might tell your girlfriend and she will want to ignore you.
- don't ever try to force her into anything she does not want like kissing
Tips
- Be her friend as well, if you are not friends, the relationship can't be successful.
- Just be yourself. That is more important than being another person than yourself.
- Don't become some complete other person for her. The act will be hard to keep up.
- Don't lose friends over her.If you break up you will be lonely.
- Don't always have sex. It's healthy now and again but I'm sure she wants go places and chat and have fun with you. Sex comes later. Get to know her first and make sure you balance every aspect of your relationship, sexual and otherwise.
Warnings
- If she's not interested, she's not interested. You can't change that.
- If she knows that you are interested, she may try to use you. Be careful of people who have been known to do that.
Things You'll Need
- A good attitude
Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference
- A girl who you like!
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