Make a Guy Like You Without Doing a Lot

Do you want to catch your crush, but not spend your entire life doing it? This guide tells you how.

Steps

  1. Don't be too serious, unless the event actually is serious. Guys like you more if you are just laid back and cool about things. If someone spills something on your Tori Burch handbag, don't cry and whine, even though you may want to. If you fall in the hallway or slip, just laugh at yourself in public. You can hit yourself in the head as much as you want to when you're alone.
  2. Show off your natural beauty - this is incredibly important. Most guys don't like the girls that have the huge black fake eyelashes, the thick eyeliner, or the blood red lipstick. Embrace your natural beauty! Try going without make up, or just wearing minimal makeup. For everyday makeup, try wearing neutral colors like brown rather than black around your eyes.
    • Makeup should add glow, not color.
  3. Wear the right clothes If you want to impress a guy, don't wear extremely baggy clothes, as they sometimes make certain girls look fatter than they actually are! Try to find clothes that fit you, and enhance the good features of your figure. Yes, this does mean that going to the store and trying on the clothes is better than ordering them online where you're not sure if they will fit or not, but it's good to know what you're buying is perfect for you. Also, don't feel like you should wear your lowest top or shortest skirt to impress him. It'll do the opposite and make you look cheap, shallow, and desperate.
  4. Participate in a sport to make a good topic for conversation. Guys love girls who have hobbies. It's okay not to play a lot of sports, but some guys tend to like girls who can throw a ball or shoot a basket. When sport season starts, try encouraging your friends to join a sport team with you and maybe try to learn a few things about the sports your crush likes.
  5. Get into health and fitness. Having a good body will make you more confident, and guys find confidence in a girl very attractive. Try small things like replacing your daily chocolate bar with an item of fruit, cutting down on the amount of TV you watch, and walking rather than using transport (which is environmentally friendly too). If you want a drastic change with your figure then start a fitness regime and ask friends or family to do it with you for support.
  6. Smile! Everyone (yes, boys and girls) love someone who can smile and laugh. Try to be optimistic and look at the glass as half full as opposed to half empty.
  7. Make your hair look presentable. As long as you take care of your hair and don't walk around looking like you've been dragged through a hedge backwards then don't worry. Also, don't worry about hair colour, some guys like blonds, some like brunettes, some like red heads, everyone has different taste.
  8. Have something which makes you different from your friends. It could be anything, even a small thing. Maybe a hobby, such as dance or art or a certain sport. Or it could be a phrase or saying that you have, nothing annoying though, and don't say it too often. Or perhaps something about the clothes you wear, try dressing slightly different to the people around you, as friends are often highly influenced by each others taste in fashion. Don't buy loads of shocking clothes, but just don't copy too much.

Tips

  • Use Anti-perspiration deodorant! This is very important, Guys will not stand to stay around you if you smell like you just rolled out of bed. Use some quality deodorant before you go to school and after exercise.
  • Guys love scented hair. Use a great smelling shampoo and matching conditioner. You can also spray a bit of perfume in your hair. Don't coat your head with it though, just enough so that when you turn around he'll get a whiff and want more. Think about what scent guys may be attracted to, perhaps lavender or vanilla.(This also might make him want you to sit in his lap or hug him so that he can get some more!)
  • Don't be a drama queen! Try to be as laid back as you can. Guys like girls who don't get caught up in gossip.
  • Be Yourself
  • If a guy has a girlfriend, don't try to break them up!
  • Be yourself, that's all that matters.
  • Be Confident. If you are confident with yourself then you can make a guy think that you are strong and believe in yourself. Confidence is very appealing.
  • When you are approaching a guy, carry something with you a like an extra soda or a piece of gum to offer him.
  • Don't play dumb. A lot of people think that playing the dumb girl is cool, but intelligence is the most attractive thing ever. The right guy loves your mind as much as your body.
  • Just be you.
  • Listen to your self.
  • Don't be a stalker!
  • If you don't get results immediately from trying to get him to like you, don't worry about it! It might mean he is shy or that he just needs to think about what he is feeling. Just keep being cool and if you never get results, you might just have to move on. There is no sense in obsessing over someone when you know there is no chance with him.
  • Don't stare at them obsessively. Most guys find this creepy and uncomfortable.

Warnings

  • Every guy has different taste in girls, just like we have different taste in guys. So if your guy still doesn't take an interest in you, don't be dis-heartened, you will eventually find your 'Mr Right'.
  • These tips might not always work, if so, do what you think is best.

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