Be the Girl All Guys Dream Of
So you are getting interested in guys at your school, but you don't know how to act to get their attention? Here are some steps on how to dress and act to Catch Your Crush's Eye (for Girls Only) Read on from step one below to become the girl all guys dream of.
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Steps
- Be yourself! This is the most important step that any girl or guy needs to know. If the "man of your dreams" doesn't like you for who you are- then he's not the man of your dreams and that should not matter. Do not EVER change for someone to like you.
- Wear whatever you want. Don't try to dress just for a guy. You don't need to show too much skin to attract guys because that's the wrong kind of attention. Wear whatever you want. You want a guy who likes you for your personality, not for what you wear or how you look.
- Again, wear what you wish. All that matters is personality and not your clothing.
- Smile and laugh around him, because that way you'll seem approachable. Don't fake laugh, just be happy. If he sees that you're comfortable around him, he'll have an easier time talking to you.
- Don't be unkind. Feel free to Tease a Guy (for Teens and Kids) back if he teases you, but don't take it to a mean level. You should always be nice, anyway. You can come up with a witty comeback then laugh so he knows you weren't serious. Be nice and witty to his friends as well. Hey, this could help him try to date you sooner, because he won't want his friends to get you first.
- Look at him a lot and when he catches you give him a dazzling smile and then look away. Sometimes it's good (especially with shy boys) to turn quickly and blush. Shy ones blush and find it adorable if you blush too. This will tell him that you like him.
- After a while check on him. Is he interested or does he ignore you? If he does ignore you then he probably doesn't care and is a waste of time, you can find someone better than him anyway!
- Try not to use curse words around him. That can make you seem rude. Once you get to know him better, do what you want of course, but it might not make the greatest first impression until he knows how awesome you really are.
- Make eye contact! There's scientific proof that when people look into each other's eyes, they are more likely to develop feelings of attraction. Don't go too long, it's natural to look away during a conversation, and its creepy if you're staring at them, but try to meet their eyes more than you might meet a friend's.
- Don't concentrate too hard on him or become too clingy. If it doesn't work out, then all this thought on him won't do you any good anyway. Act as you can totally live without him and he will find it hard to resist wanting to hang with you. It's like you could not hang out with him and not even miss a beat, it'll drive him insane that you can be fine without him, but you won't have to be without him because as long as you've followed these steps, you'll be the girl every guy dreams of.
Tips
- Guys like a challenge, so don't always be there, if you're always there he won't have time to miss you and wonder if he should be chasing you.
- Make sure that you don't come across as desperate, or it could be the end of your crush!
- Don't change anything about yourself that'll make you uncomfortable.
- Have fun teasing and competing with him. Guys love girls that can stand on their own or know how to compete. Just don't overdo the competition, because if you do, then rather than as a love interest he'll see you as a sister or one of the guys - friendzoning isn't fun!
- Get him to talk about himself — guys love that and tend to do it when they're nervous anyway.
- Don't show too much love because that might make him think that you can't live with out him.
- Listen to him to let him know you are someone to trust.
- Whenever you pass him lightly bump into him and say "Oh I am so sorry..." and then smile and walk briskly away... After about 7 steps look back to see if he is looking back, too... If he is it's a good sign.
- When looking him in the eyes, smile a little or bite your lower lip.
- Be whoever you want to be! Be awesome, be free, be yourself.
- Never change for a guy; it's not worth it!
- Pay attention to how long you can keep eye contact with him, it's easier to tell the length if he's kinda shy. The longer you hold eye contact with him, the more interested you'll seem. If he breaks it first, he's either shy and you're intimidating him or he doesn't really like you. Be careful though, guys with a well endowed ego tend to hold eye contact well.
- Touch him every once in a while, an "I'm walking around you and don't want you to back into me" brush on his shoulder works well.
- When talking to him, try putting your arm on his, to show that you're interested. If he pulls away though, he might not be.
- Just have fun with him. Don't get down if he's not into you, maybe he'll make a good friend! If all else fails, there's another guy waiting to meet someone like you.
- When you are around other girls, flirt with him — for example, touch him or lean in to him. Sit next to him a lot.
- Be cheerful!
Warnings
- DO NOT try this if he has a girlfriend because you should show some respect.
- You may fall to hard and be "crushed", hence the term "crush". Your guy might brush you off and leave you heartbroken, so be very cautious, besides there are lots of other boys waiting for you!
- If you don't get him, don't push it. It's okay because if he doesn't like you, you shouldn't bother liking him.
- DO NOT burp or fart around him and be polite to show him your respect. (That should apply to people in general, not just us girls.)
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