Make a Guy Your Best Friend

You want to have a guy best friend? A guy that you can talk to about anything, and ask about guy stuff? This article should help you out, give you great pointers, and best of all, having fun while doing so.

Steps

  1. Spend time with him. If you already know the boy you want to be best friends with, hang around him more often.
  2. If he plays a sport, ask about it. Or even ask if you can go watch him play.
  3. Tell him stuff about you, tell him things that you have in common. If you like football, cars, movies or gaming these are things that boys like and if you like them too that should put you in the good books.
  4. Ask him about his family, meet them. Meet his brothers and sisters etc. Be friendly towards them.
  5. Go to a gathering with a few boys, generally he will be himself around his buddies, also it will give you a shot to see what he really enjoys doing.

Tips

  • Listen to his problems
  • Make sure you trust him and he trusts you before telling him about deep, personal topics.
  • Don't talk about make up and girly stuff because he will likely not listen to you or change the subject.
  • Make up your mind first-- do you want a relationship or just a friendship? This is important to know for yourself before making a move.
  • Don't stalk him. It can make him uncomfortable.
  • Let him be comfortable with your presence, like comforting him or helping him with some things, always take care you are not giving him signs that you should not because he is a friend .
  • Keep it interesting
  • A little flirting helps. But don't flirt too much or he may think you want to be more than just friends.
  • If you need to, take up new hobbies that he likes. But make sure you are enjoying it as well.
  • Don't spam him with messages. Let him start talking to you first.
  • Start something new together. If you both love playing instruments, you can start a band together with a few other people.

Warnings

  • Don't come on too strong, it could scare him.
  • Don't be someone you're not.
  • Don't back stab him.

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