Make a Player Develop Feelings for You After a One Night Stand
So you ended up really falling for that person with whom you had just one date. It's great if he/she is on the same page. But what if he/she is just interested in one-night stands with different people? Yes, you can make him/her fall for you too!
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Steps
- Control your emotions. Never let that person know how crazy you are about them.
- Never ask about their previous partners and never show any sign of jealousy or possessiveness to this person.
- Don't brag about your previous experience either. If asked, try not to give a direct answer or number - whether you had just one partner or a hundred of them.
- Show your interest, however.
- Always stay positive and fun.
- Don't ask whether you will see them again.
- Don't promise the second date even if they ask. Say something like "I will call you if the memories of our date drive me too crazy..." Doesn't matter what you say, but there has to be the feeling of uncertainty on one hand and your total control on the other hand.
Tips
- Learn to manipulate their mind. After having great time together and letting him/her feel how much you enjoyed it, say something like: "I am sorry to tell you but it is likely going to be the last time of me seeing you. I play by these rules. Don't ask why"
- First, it will make the impression that you are mysterious and puzzling.
- Second, it will psychologically make that player want to prove that you will want to see him/her again, and do everything possible to keep you interested.
- And lastly, players typically expect the same scenario, that the other person will be more serious than they so they have that power, which is enjoyable and at the same time boring to them. Break this pattern for him/her. Pretend to be even bigger player than they are. You don't have to be, just act it.
Warnings
- Use these tips only if you are positive that this person is a complete player and has such a reputation. The hint that it might be the last time you see them will only work for a person who was really planning to see you just once! That will likely change his/her plans. Otherwise, if the person is serious about you, you will either hurt them terribly by such hint or they will not take you seriously anymore.
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