Set Yourself up for the Perfect First Kiss As a Teen Male
For the teenage guy who needs a little guidance in getting his first kiss right with zero weirdness and a little bit of love.
Steps
- Take your dream girl to her comfort zone. This could be a library, a beach, a park, or a diner. This will remove any extra pressure and nerves that she may have.
- Make an effort to be charming. Compliment her on something that has caught your eye and never let her know your intentions.
- Try the spontaneous approach. Many of my friends who are jocks have tried this. For instance, a big win at a school competition might just be a good time to kiss your girlfriend with passion due to school spirit.
- Try the permission approach. This works best at the end of a fun date such as seeing a movie or going swimming. You look her deep into her eyes, hold both of her hands, tell her that you are about to kiss her, and just do it.
- Try the moving in approach. Let's say that you and your girlfriend are studying together and all of a sudden it gets cold. You move closer to her, allow her to lean into you, make sure that she enjoys you being in her personal space, tilt her chin, and give her a long kiss.
- Try the prop kiss. In winter, you could buy mistletoe and hang it on a tree branch. You could then walk with your girlfriend, tell her to look up, whisper mistletoe, and kiss then hug her. Be creative.
- Forget about rejection. You cannot go throughout life being fearful of rejection. Girls love confidence, chivalry, and good hygiene. Be sure that the girl at least knows you well enough to determine that you aren't only interested in making out. Nice guys finish first and even if they don't, they get let down easy.
- Be ready to kiss. Make sure that your lips are okay and that your breath is fresh. Dental hygiene is extremely important, and don't let her see you chewing gum right before you make the big move. Keep the kiss short, but not too short. Generally, about 10 seconds is ideal.
Tips
- Treat her like she's one-of-a-kind.
- Have fresh breath.
- Don't brag about the kiss afterwards.
- Ignore any rumors about you and your girlfriend, unless you can prove that it is 100% true.
- Take some time and try again later if she seems hesitant.
- Getting her phone number early on puts up a trust barrier that makes her feel safe.
- Have your own life. Girls love guys who don't have to depend on them. Go out with your friends, play the piano, join the soccer team, dare be in the Spanish club.
- Brains matters. Believe it or not.
- Close your eyes about when there is only {{safesubst:#invoke:convert|convert}} left.
Warnings
- Don't judge by looks alone.
- Try not to talk about yourself too much.
- Don't reinvent yourself. It comes off as lame and people can tell when you're just pretending.
- Not every girl is going to meet your standards, at this age, its okay to lower them a little.
- Carry chap-stick with you at all times when with your girlfriend.
