Act Available but Never Be Available

Do you want to play hard to get but don't know where to start? If you read this, then you will learn how to do just that. Many guys like girls that play hard to get. Continue reading and you will have lots of guys drooling over you in no time!

Steps

  1. Always say you have a boyfriend even if you don't. It makes you seem like you're taken and unavailable.
  2. Say that although you would like to go on a date with a guy (if he asks) you already have plans or a prior engagement.
  3. Tell the guy you like him but never make yourself available to spend time with him.
  4. After a short period of time, tell him you broke up with your significant other but continue to make yourself unavailable.

Tips

  • 3. This is boring
  • By being vague you feed his worst nightmare, even if you've only planned to stay home and read a good book. He'll probably call at least twice, and having the answering machine on will only make things worse.
  • Whether he was just looking in the direction of a hottie or you caught him staring, you're not going to believe what he says anyway, so what's the point in asking?
  • If you do this it is more likely to backfire, Please follow the following advise
  • Keep small talk to a minimum. Abruptly cut off the conversation and tell him you have to get off the phone.
  • 1. I'm seeing someone
  • 8. I love you
  • Dating would be easier if we didn't have to talk. How many times did you feel you were making a good impression? You looked sharp; your body language was just right, but you botched your chance at romance by saying something that annoyed, angered or terrified your date.
  • Sure, you want your friends to like him, but the last thing he wants is to feel like he's being shown off at an auction. Better to ease him into your circle of friends gradually rather than all at once.
  • Asking his opinion about anything personal is always fraught with danger, but this question guarantees that you'll be aggravated by anything that comes out of his mouth.
  • Okay, you knew you hated wrestling, so why did you agree to watch it with him? If he wants to do something that you're not interested in, tell him so beforehand — not during; otherwise, you'll make him feel stupid and angry.
  • Unless he's thinking the same thing, you'll recognise the way his eyes grow wide like a deer caught in the headlights. Don't expect him to remember anything for the next hour or two.
  • Never give details. Always just say you are busy.
  • 6. Not tonight, honey
  • Okay, so this might seem like a good thing to hear, but he won't think so if you say it after only a few dates. A case of too much too soon.
  • 5. Who is that?
  • 2. I'm busy tonight
  • 9. Let's live together
  • So here's our top ten list of three words he never wants to hear:
  • When they ask you out say you will think about it but never give a direct answer.
  • No matter what your reason, he'll take this as the kiss of death, and you'll never see him again.
  • Unless you're talking about a late-night snack and how you don't feel like making him a sandwich, this one ain't gonna earn you any points.
  • 4. Am I fat?
  • 7. Meet my friends
  • In the world of dating, there are three words you must use with caution; their power is much greater than their length, and they should never be said too early in a relationship. Once said, they can never be retracted.
  • Get an answering machine - you can have men call you without being totally available.
  • 10. Let's be friends
  • You might think that you're being open and honest because you've just met, but in his mind this seems like you're just out to get a free drink or meal. Don't be surprised if he suddenly needs to leave.

Warnings

  • Despite what the introduction to this article says, many guys find girls who play hard to get to be a major turn-off and will quickly lose interest. Be careful.
  • Don't lie in order to play hard to get. Only one person will get hurt - you! Even playing hard to get has it's limit. Know when to stop!
  • If you say you are in a relationship, someone may inquire as to who you are in it with. Be prepared to either fess up or come up with an answer on the spot.
  • Don't be too rude or he might get his feelings hurt.

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