Avoid Becoming a Booty Call

Are you looking for that special someone who you want to know and have more to offer as a friend or in a relationship than just booty? Follow these steps to avoid being just a one-night-stand.

Steps

  1. When you first meet a guy, stay in public or around others.
  2. Try to always go on group dates with him or have friends along--sometimes including his friends.
  3. Meet some of his friends and family if possible.
  4. Do not answer his phone call late at night. Your excuse is you were sleep and you were (or should be).
  5. Don't give it up. If you can tell that he is only going to hang with you for a brief moment, don't try to get him to stay by giving him some.
  6. Get to know him and let him get to really know you. (Don't judge anyone you don't know.)
  7. Try to find some things to do in common with him, like going to a ball game or a dance, activities where you are not alone.
  8. After a date, don't invite him in; just let him go home.
  9. Don't feel guilty when he whines that you aren't giving him any. Evidently he doesn't care about your decision and feelings!
  10. If you slip once, don't make it a habit. After you give him some, and they leave shortly, don't give him any again--go back to step one. Learn from your mistakes and follow another path.
  11. Break if off or take a break, if he refuses to see you again except for times late at night or brief moments. Give yourself and him a break from seeing each other or move on. Say: "Neeeexxxt!" Because not all will think of you as just a booty call. It's up to you to behave up to your standards.

Tips

  • Getting to know a person really well will prevent diseases by avoiding wanna-be promiscuous types, losers, also-rans, etc. from using you, wasting your time, life, and heart because you'll know what they are capable of or not.
  • Letting him get to know you well will get you in his mind in other ways than just sex. You might have some other things in common.
  • Meeting the actual parents is important. If they seem to take you seriously in being with their son, then the son may be serious about you, or they may try to persuade their son to take you seriously, if they like you.

Warnings

  • It's a warning signal if his family keeps a distance from you on purpose by hardly greeting or talking to you. It can mean someone else is in his life, and he might like that person or think you will not last because of his constant change in partners.
  • It's a warning signal if he will not let you meet his friends or family.
  • It's a warning signal if his friends are mostly macks or players.

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