Be Happy when You Don't Have Friends

Even though we're often surrounded with people, there may be times in your life when you actually don't have a friend to hang out with. Perhaps this moment happens when your good friends are married, you've moved to another city or you have been working so hard on a goal that time passed by without staying in touch. While this many seem familiar, there is no need for panic. Eventually you will find new friends. Until then, keep happy by finding other things to do, to help you overcome the feeling of not having friends.

Steps

  1. Take some time for things that you didn't have time before. Yes, there is always something that you've started but never finished because of your duties and social life. But at this particular time when you don't have friends try to finish a painting, a novel or something else that you have been working on. At least you will have something interesting to present to your future friends.
  2. Explore. Explore the world and everything around you. Enjoy the sun (it's free!), or you can go on a trip that you always dreamed about but never had time before. Read a book, watch your favorite comedy, etc.
  3. Visit your relatives. There was a time when you didn't need them, but now you do. Try to reconnect with them and learn something new about them.
  4. Give love, give gifts. Love can do magic and by expressing your love you will feel better about yourself. Look confident. You never know when true love will come along, or a deeply connected friendship.
  5. Try to make a difference in your lifestyle. Are you bored with the same room? Paint it in a different color or re-arrange the furniture. You will feel brightened by the change. By doing something active, you often forget that something is bothering you.
  6. Keep an eye out for the good guys. Now you have time to find your soul mate.
  7. Sit down with your photo album. There is no better feeling than taking time to go back to your earlier memories. You had good times, huh? But get ready! Good times are yet to come again, just be patient.
  8. Listen to music. Music is the best cure. Just enjoy the melody and dive into the magical world of music and melody notes.
  9. Take care of yourself. There is no one who will take care of you if you don't do that by yourself. Start a new exercise program, start eating well, etc.
  10. Do things for yourself. This will help you to will feel much better. If you're radiating confidence and self-reliance, you will attract new friends.

Tips

  • Stay in a good condition. Walk, exercise, cook, draw, etc.
  • Stay healthy, don't let this damage your self - esteem. You are a fish that dives into the ocean searching for something better that you had before.
  • Try to remember that you are the best, there is nothing wrong with you,but at this particular time you can't find a decent friends as you would like.
  • Smile. Wherever you go, just smile. By being positive you will attract people to yourself.
  • Do your best to be good and pure. Remember that even if you don't have any friends at all, it is not the end of your life.Being with family is what you should cherish the most. "Friends" will come and go often but when there is nothing, you will always have your family to be with.

Warnings

  • Be patient. Sometimes it takes more time to find new friends, but what matters is keeping the faith that better days are yet to come.

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