Be Weird and Loud but Not Obnoxious

Are you weird and loud at heart? Do you have a larger-than-life personality, but need help showcasing it without being totally obnoxious to everyone around you? No worries—with the help of this article, your problems will end.

Steps

  1. Be social. Be an extrovert, start conversations with others, and socialize. Be talkative, but stop to listen to what others have to say instead of constantly talking over them. Be loud, and talk a lot - but not too much. Be aware of the point where people are starting to get annoyed because they can't get a word in edgewise around you, and then stop talking.
  2. Be confident. With confidence comes charisma, and others naturally flock to people with charisma. Be confident and don't worry about what other people think. Be yourself and love yourself.
  3. Be funny. Tell jokes, write funny jokes or stories, or simply be random and spontaneous. Watch funny TV shows to get ideas. If you find something on TV really funny, quote it in front of your friends to make them laugh. Remember not to make jokes at other people's expense - this will hurt their feelings and annoy them, and they'll think that you're obnoxious.
  4. Practice kindness. A sweet, loud person is much more endearing than a mean loud one. Work on being there for your friends, listening to others, and helping with and anticipating their needs. Give gifts, help out a friend who needs a boost, and be there when your loved ones need you. This will make all the difference.
  5. Be a positive person. Be happy and friendly; people don't want to be around people who are negative and who bring them down. Don't complain a lot, be positive! Be nice and friendly to people you just met. Be the kind of person that cheers up others. Always see the glass as half full instead of half empty, and find the positive aspects of every situation.
  6. Practice versatility. Gregariousness is great, but in more serious positions it can be insensitive. Learn to listen well to others, and be serious when you need to.
  7. Have fun! Have as much fun as possible. Live in the moment and be carefree. Don't take jokes too seriously yourself. Go to parties, throw parties, go to school dances, go to concerts and have a blast while you're there! Enjoy what life has to offer! Live your life while you can. Have as much fun as a person can possibly have! If you are having fun everyone will have fun too.
  8. Be true to your friends. Make a lot of friends, dump the ones who are bad friends, and love the ones who are good. You can never please everybody, so stick with the ones who like you. Get with your friends and be a good friend to them. These are the people who love you for who you are, weird loudness and all!

Tips

  • Be unique. Everyone is but not everyone shows it.
  • This might not be who you are. Don't follow this article word-for-word; add your own personal flair to it.
  • If you are happy, you are having fun. If your friends are happy, you are happy. This is why you have to be a good friend. And if you're so called "friends" are always making you sad, how can you possibly be happy and have fun? That is why you have to hang out with the right people.
  • Be confident and believe in yourself no matter what!

Warnings

  • Don't let serious people get you down. Ignore the people that don't like you and love the ones who love you back!
  • Sometimes you are going to run into someone that is annoying. Just take a breath and be calm; avoid being obnoxious back to them.

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