Become Friends With a Guy You Have a Huge Crush On

Do you have a huge crush on a guy who you don't know very well? Or you know him but never know what to say? Maybe he's the captain of the football team and you just want to know him better and possibly take it further, then this article will help you explore what to do and what NOT to say!

Steps

  1. Sit beside him and generally talk. Whether you're in the classroom or on the bus or at work, always find a way to sit beside him or get close, that way you can talk with him whether it be about the weather or a sports team. Just get to know him better!
  2. Become friends on Facebook, you both have Facebook, in all likelihood, so find him and send a friend request. If you've chatted before he will recognize you and most likely accept the request; a friend request is one of the most common and nonchalant things today, so don't dread or be afraid they have connected the figurative dots and know your crushing; this fear is equivalent to worrying people thinking you odd for, say, breathing. If you're good friends already send him a message or give him a poke!
  3. Plan your route so you unexpectedly bump into him can be a great opportunity to talk again, however make it look realistic and don't do it all the time or he will think you're stalking him!
  4. Smile! Guys love it when girls smile as it's a sign of friendliness and makes you more approachable. More than likely he'll think your smile is cute also!
  5. Talk hobbies! After general chatting with him everyday on the bus for 3 months you're probably wondering, "what next?!" Well, naturally, you'll be friends by now and will talk about other things but if you're really stuck, why not talk hobbies? Find out what he likes and if you like the same ... viola!
  6. Get his mobile/cell phone number. After you're past the general chatting stage and you've become good friends ask for his cell phone number or he might ask you for yours, but make sure you know him well enough!
  7. Cinema trip! If after all this you want to meet up with him after work or school for some relaxing time as friends why not go to the cinema, park, seaside or shopping mall? If you get the feeling he won't go if it's just the two of you then invite more friends, some of yours and some of his and everyone will get to know each other more!

Tips

  • Be careful to not be obsessed with him. You could become annoying to him, and your friends
  • If he achieves something great, congratulate him! Even if you don't know him that well, it'll make him feel great.
  • If you don't have any same interests maybe learn something new that he likes? - But NEVER change and be someone you're not!
  • If blusher, eye liner and Vogue magazine are your top hobbies, perhaps don't share them with him! He probably won't want to talk about what shades look best.
  • Don't expect immediate reactions from him.
  • If you're Facebook friends, change your profile pic to see if he "likes" it or not as this could mean he likes you a little more (it could also means he just likes the picture) than you previously thought.

Warnings

  • Always be yourself!
  • Take it slow while making friends with him, you don't want to be playing a game of mastermind and asking him a million questions all at once!
  • Never go to a location you're not familiar with!
  • Don't ask him for his number if you've only just met; that might freak him out!
  • If he has a girlfriend, you can still become friends but DON'T confess your true feelings for him. It's not fair and you could embarrass yourself.

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