Deal if You're a Bad Kisser
If your lover barely wants to kiss you, or that you think you're a bad kisser yourself, don't panic! There is no exact right way to kiss! Read through this article step-by-step and see if you can improve!
Steps
- Make sure you have feelings for your partner. A kiss is not a kiss if you both don't have strong feelings for each other! If you know he/she likes you, then hint to your partner that you want a kiss. If your lover takes the hints, but doesn't want to do anything about it then it might be true that he/she doesn't want to kiss you! This is because you either have bad breath, a sloppy kiss, or your partner doesn't like your style of kissing.
- If you think you have bad breath, then carry breath mints with you in your purse or bag. Take them throughout the day and even sneak one when you think the moment is coming very soon. Bad breath is disgusting, and it ruins the moment. You don't want your lover to talk about how bad your breath was to his friends, do you?
- Sometimes, a sloppy kiss can ruin the moment also. Especially if you have bad breath. Nobody wants your saliva around their mouth and to wipe it off after a kiss. Try not to lick your lips too often or create too much saliva in your mouth. Try not to spew up slobber while you're kissing, too.
- You may kiss well, but your style may not be right for the guy. You may kiss well passionately, but maybe your boy prefers a dominant, rough kiss. That's OKAY. If you think he doesn't like your style, try to ask him what he prefers. This may be weird for some people, so when you're in a joking mood, try to get into the topic of kissing. Use someone else as an example, just for a joke. You can get a lot of information about what style he prefers.
Tips
- At times, you need to get HIM/HER to kiss you. Position yourself to it, start to touch your partner's arms and slowly rub your fingers up and down on it. If you're both nervous, you may need to be the one to make the first move. If you're sitting next to each other, randomly grab their hand and cuddle against them. When you tell them that you love them while holding hands, and they reply, "I love you too." and squeezes harder, then that means they want your heart. A kiss may be occurring soon!
- NEVER chew gum. It makes your breath fresh, but it builds up saliva which leads to a sloppy kiss.
- Relax. When you are hyped up, it may not be a good time to kiss. When you're body is relaxed, get into a romantic mood or position with your lover.
- ALWAYS carry breath mints. Take them occasionally throughout the day, just in case it's unexpected.
Warnings
- Note that if your guy doesn't enjoy your kisses, don't force him to kiss you. That'll get him disgusted and have second thoughts on you.
- NEVER use gum to solve a bad breath problem. It only creates more saliva and can make any kiss sloppy.
- If the kiss is unsuspecting and you know you're not prepared, don't be afraid to pull back! If you continue with the kiss, your guy will have second thoughts about your kiss. Especially the first.
Things You'll Need
- Breath Mints
- A partner
- Kissable, fresh lips
- True love
- confidence
