Flirt As a Teen Boy
Flirting with a girl may come naturally for some, but it can prove to be difficult for others - especially for those who do not know how to begin a conversation with a girl. However, do not give up hope. Here are a few tips to keep in mind the next time you see a girl you like and you want to flirt with her.
Steps
- Compliment her. Look for something cordial and positive about her to comment on when you are ready to approach her. Be genuine with your compliments and make your conversation nonchalant, fun and witty at the same time. You will probably catch a smile or giggle from her. Compliment that she has pretty hair or that she looks nice.
- Smile and relax. Be yourself. Your body language reflects how you feel. Being relaxed will show you are confident and amiable. Otherwise, you may appear awkward, or worse, look like someone to avoid.
- Show her respect. Show respect for her even as you are flirting-- that way she will not take your remarks the wrong way. Don't be scared to let her know you enjoy her company and want to get to know her.
- Tease her a little bit. This is an innocent way to see if she will respond to more flirtatious behavior from you. Think of other things about her that you can compliment, such as her appearance, her dress style, her weird purse or the color of her eyes. Try to comment in such a way that you catch her interest and also make her laugh.
- Be confident! Go up and talk to her! Don't be shy; girls love it when you just talk to them. Confidence is a quality almost every girl wants in a boy, so even if you are insecure, you should try your best not to let it show. Talk to her, make her laugh, tell her a funny story, or just have a simple conversation.
Tips
- Look her in the eyes when talking to her and smile.
- Take precaution that your flirting is not making her uneasy. Look for her body language or cues to see if she is taking to your flirting or if she is wishing you to back off. If she appears to enjoy it, you are doing a fine job. If not, apologize and practice some more with your flirting.
- Be genuinely interested in her and what she is interested in.
- Have fun, and good luck.
Warnings
- Don't come on too strong
- Don't over-compliment her. Girls hate that.
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