Get 'That Guy' to Kiss You in a Week
How to get that special guy to kiss you in seven days. This method may also be more effective for those who are in school and presumably know the person (even slightly)
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Steps
- Get him interested. This is best done at a party or gathering or just seeing them, all you need to do is make them notice you have a nice decent conversation, if your at a party ask them to dance or just spend a lot of time with them.
- Keep speaking to him. Don't just drift off into the background, keep talking to him and don't be afraid to start the conversation. A good place to do this is on Facebook because it's very casual you can also do it by text but not everyone will have their number.
- Don't seem obsessed. If you try to talk to him every single day about meaningless things, you may seem a bit like a stalker, talk to him about things that share an interest in and try to be casual, if the conversation seems a bit awkward he may just be a bit shy but if when you usually speak to him he isn't awkward then maybe change the subject.
- Look after yourself. This is especially important if you see them a lot (if they go to your school) if you have one day in the week where you're looking/smelling particularly bad then it's not going to be much of an incentive to kiss you. But beware you don't massively change your make up/hair because it will be obvious you're changing for something.
- Get closer. This step is ideally done at a party because it's the perfect situation for that sort of thing. It can also be at a gathering or something of the sort. Throughout the night try to stay close to him, and make hints (but don't act like a stalker, that's just awkward and weird).
- Don't be afraid to make the first move. Sometimes, boys are shy and it can be refreshing for a girl to make the first move once in a while. If he seems into you, but hasn't tried to kiss you yet, go for it!
- Enjoy your night.
Tips
- Get close together and eventually the two of you will both lean in to kiss each other.
- Never kiss a guy if you and him talked only twice.
- When doing this make sure to take some extra mints (or some breath fresheners).
- Play cool, flirt and don't kiss him first, make him come to you. In about a week of flirting, he will want a little bit more every day.
- Don't just talk about you. Ask your date questions about themselves.
- It's good if you know him in the first place, you can't expect this to work with a complete stranger.
- Make sure that you are ready because if you are not then it won't work.
- Wait for a response, because guys might think you want a hookup or relationship. But don't bring it up quickly , he will tell you most likely the day after.
- Always try to be subtle obviously before you're going in for the kiss.
- The penultimate step is ideally done at a party, so is the first step because a party is an easier place to socialise and form stronger friendships than at school.
- If you see your partner isn't ready, don't push him. It is more pleasant when you are both prepared.
- Don't kiss them out of the blue. Really annoys the guy.
- If you're too chicken to get close, then pretend you think there's something on his face and try to brush it off. This also is a good idea to see if he likes you, if he seems to enjoy you touching him, then go for it, but if he tries to swat you away or doesn't like it, don't attempt to kiss him!
Warnings
- Don't tell everyone after, he might get angry.
- Don't act like a stalker. It's just awkward for everyone involved.
- Continue to talk to him after, even if you only want him as a friend because otherwise it'll be awkward next time you see him.
- Don't be too clingy before, it'll put him off.
- Don't become too attached. it's not worth it if you think he may like someone else or has permanently friend zoned you.
- Don't be too clingy after he may not be going for a relationship and you may not be either.
