Get Any Guy You Want
Whether you have a crush on a guy, or just want guys to like you in general, there are tips you can use to your advantage.
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Steps
- Have a good appearance. Try to dress in clothes that flatter your body, but are also unique, something that makes you look different from the other girls, but nothing too crazy of course. Don't show too much skin, but don't hide yourself either.
- Find a cute guy, and then figure out a way to be introduced to him. You have two options here; You can simply walk up to him and start a conversation, starting with a question such as "What school do you go to?" or pretend to need something, like "Can I borrow a pen?". It is important to be friendly and bubbly when you approach him. The other option is to find an opportunity to be introduced to him. You could ask your friend to become friends with him, and then be introduced by them later.
- Talk to him. Be social and smile a lot. Keep the first few conversations short, but talk a lot during them, and throw in a compliment! This will make him notice you more.
- Start doing things with him. Introduce him to your own friends, or become friends with all of his friends, so you can hang out and do things together. Start to have more focused conversations with him.
- Do NOT seem all over him. Guys like a challenge. A girl who is obviously crushing on them is not a challenge at all. Talk to him and be friendly, don't seem shy at ALL, but don't focus all your attention on him. Go talk to your other friends every once in a while, seem like you also have other things to do, and do not follow him around. You can't seem clingy. Remember the phrase, "You only want what you can't have"? A guy cannot want you if he feels he already has you. He needs to feel like he has to work for you.
- After you've become acquaintances with him, it should be clear if he is into you or not. If you see him looking at you often, or if he talks to you a lot, then he might like you. If you see these signs, start flirting a little, always not seeming too needy! If he flirts back, then keep going. Always remember that you have to keep him guessing a little, do not let him be convinced that you like him. He should be in the mindset that you probably like him, but there is a chance you don't.
- After this, he should start making moves on you, or you two will be comfortable enough to move forward together. Just ALWAYS remember not be too clingy, and remember that guys like CHALLENGES, not girls that are easy to get with.
Tips
- How about be yourself? If a guy doesn't like you for who you are then leave him in the dust. Don't change yourself for anyone.
- Keep things mysterious. That will make him try to figure you out. Just a little cat and mouse... But not too much! Then it will make you seem not interested.
- Do NOT be all over him.
- Try to be different from the other girls in every aspect of yourself, but not so much that you are weird.
- Don't let your friends bug him, he will get annoyed and will probably stop talking to you.
- Don't talk about your other relationships with him either, as that can be a huge turn-off.
- Compliment him once in a while. Again, don't overdo it! Keep it a maximum of once every few days.
- Do NOT be an attention-whore.
- Even though you are being friendly to him, stay a little mysterious and hard to get.
- Be friendly and bubbly, but don't overdo it. Craziness is a turn off.
- Always look good.
- Don't be shy or awkward.
Warnings
- Every guy is different, don't expect them to all act the same.
- Do NOT hook up or have sex with him before you two date. This will make you seem easy.
- DO NOT ASK HIM OUT. This is a huge turn-off for guys. Wait for him to ask you out!
