Get a Date with a Girl Who Is Always Busy

You want to go on a date with a girl, but she is always busy. What do you do?

Steps

  1. Make sure that she is actually busy. Some girls will use "busy" as an excuse to not go out with you, in order to not hurt your feelings. If this is the case, stop asking her out. Continuing this will only cause pain to both her and you.
  2. Find out what she's doing. Is she interested in sports? Is she always out with her friends? Where does she go when she is constantly busy? Don't be a stalker, but ask casual questions to find out the answers.
  3. Get interested. Once you know where she is going, try to be there at the same times. Get involved in the same sports, activities, or clubs that she is. This will also give you a common bond and something to talk about.
  4. Make your date in advance. Giving her advance notice will help insure that she isn't busy on that day. Be as specific as possible when giving the time.
  5. Don't be discouraged. Even if she says no, it isn't the end of the world. Respect her decision. Begging is not going to get you anywhere.

Tips

  • Make sure you know when, where, and what you will be doing on your date before you ask her.
  • If you are too embarrassed to ask the girl about what she likes to do, talk to her friends. They can be a valuable resource.

Warnings

  • Don't seem stalkerish. It will most likely scare her away.

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