Get a Girl to Talk to You
You really like this girl and want her to talk to you. So what do you do? Read this article and try your best.
Contents
Steps
- Be yourself. Girls don't like it when guys act cool. Just relax and go with the flow.
- Practice good hygiene, meaning shower regularly. Use deodorant and cologne, because girls really like it when guys smell nice. This will encourage girls to stay closer to you.
- Talk to her. You can start by saying Hey. Some girls are really shy and don't make it obvious that they like you, so you try starting up a conversation with her about who she is and what she likes to do. She'll come out of her shell. Other girls are outgoing and would appreciate the opportunity to talk to you, and may even talk to you first!
- Get to know her. Don't follow her around or act like a stalker, but casually notice where she goes, what she likes to do, and who her friends are.
- Become her friend. Becoming her friend will make her more comfortable around you. She will also grow to like you.
- Be prepared! If you are nervous, it's better to have a few things in the locker. Find out what she is interested in and have a few things prepared to tell her.
- Be down to earth. Don't lie, explain how you really feel about her and try to hang out together.
Tips
- Girls like it when guys can make them laugh, but not too much, as she may become uncomfortable if you keep making jokes. Keep the Not Be Rude for your guy friends. But keep up with the jokes! If you say the same jokes over and over again, the girl may get bored and lose interest.
- Sometimes just laughing and smiling can make a girl melt.
- Some girls are a little more aware of guys liking them than guys are with girls.
- Sometimes it helps to be demure and not excited around her. Just act normal and things will go fine.
- Find out what interests her and make sure you have it in you or around you.
- Girls like guys who smile a lot.
- If a girl likes you, she'll mention you around her friends. Talk to her friends and see if she likes you, but don't be nosy.
- Join clubs that you and the girl are both interested in.
- If you know a secret she and her friends are keeping, convince her you won't tell anyone. She will tell you.
- Talk to her. Make conversation. Try to be bubbly and confident. Most girls love confidence. Don't act like everybody loves you and generally like a complete pig.
Don't make period jokes. Unless you know her well and know she finds them funny (like me!). Failing to be bubbly and confident, if that's not who you are, be yourself. And, letting you in on a little secret, your looks don't matter. To be honest, even the ugliest person looks beautiful with a great personality to match.
- Just talk to her and try to be her friend.
Warnings
- DO NOT join a club just because the girl you like is in it. She'll think you are stalking her and think you are weird.
- Never talk adult contents to her! Girls also find this a HUGE turn-off.
- Never touch her body without her permission, she will get offended and maybe even report you to someone (teacher/police).
- DO NOT laugh hysterically. Girls find that a HUGE turn-off.
Things You'll Need
- Hygiene supplies: shampoo, conditioner, soap, deodorant, cologne, etc.
- A smile.
- A sense of humor. If you are not funny, look some jokes up online.
