Get a Guy in a Week

Got a guy you want? Go and get him...it'll only take you a week if you follow these instructions!

Steps

  1. Make sure this guy is worthy of your attention. You don't want to go after a complete loser now, do you? You'll never be happy with the guy even if you do end up nabbing him at the end - so do your homework! Watch the kind of crowd he hangs around with, take notice of any rumors surrounding him, know how he treats his women (or women in general). If he seems to be worth it, go to the next step.
  2. Catch his eye. Think about changing your hair color/getting a new cut, or another minor detail, like wearing a new stand-out scarf. It'll make sure that he takes note of your existence if he hasn't before.
  3. Get him worked up. Guys all love a good-looking girl, don't you? It doesn't matter whether you are a gorgeous Kate Moss lookalike or not - but what is important is that you make an effort on your appearance, which signifies self-respect. Wear a little lip gloss, iron your best jeans, use a bit of gloss serum in your newly-coloured hair. Remember, less is more - natural radiance is the key here. Guys are attracted to girls who've got game - have fun, be nice to others... and above all, be yourself!
  4. Hold his gaze. When you next see him walking towards you, catch his eye and hold his gaze for three seconds, smiling slightly all the while and doing your best to seem accidentally attractive. Holding a guy's gaze for three seconds signals sexual interest - so work it to your advantage! What's there to be embarrassed about? You're looking your best!
  5. Be in the right place at the right time. Place yourself in situations where he'll have the chance to interact with you. Join something that he's involved in as well, or hang out near a place where you know he'll be during break or after school. It's also advantageous to place yourself in a situation where he'll possibly be on his own, as he won't feel so weird talking to you.
  6. Initiate contact. Still haven't had the chance to talk to him yet? Or has he not shown the slightest bit of interest? It's time to pluck up the courage, girl! (And it's not nearly as hard as you think.) If you don't want to ruin your chances by screwing it up the first time you speak to him, create a bit of leeway by getting to know one of his friends first - and then maybe he'll start joining in on your conversations! (or perhaps you can drag him into it.)
  7. Don't act like you're desperate, play hard to get until he notices you. Then flash him a great smile.
  8. When he does talk to you, don't act eager, let him want you, and look straight into his eyes.
  9. Make sure you're noticed. If you have co-ed gym, do a cartwheel, a split, or something to show off a bit. Wear some short, flattering shorts in gym. Try to make sure you're on his team.
  10. Talk to him and find a little about him (vice versa) so you two will have a better connection.
  11. Flirt with him and let him know that you are interested but always be yourself!
  12. Try to break the "touch" ice. Have reasons to touch his arm and hair.

Tips

  • Boys love it when you laugh with him.
  • Be bold! Work up the nerve and ask him about his interests!
  • No matter if you're going after a goth, prep, jock, whatever, never change yourself to suit him. No guy is worth that. But then again, you can change some minor things to complement his personality. For example, if you're after a goth, wear a little more black. If you know his favorite TV shows, watch them.
  • Mascara helps to catch his eye. Get those bambi a-fluttering, gorgeous. But careful that you don't overdo it during school time - it looks a tad try hard in a school environment.
  • Bite your lips when you're talking to him, it'll make you look mysterious and him more interested to find out what you're all about.
  • Bump into him in the hall as an excuse to talk to him.
  • If he likes another girl, don't try to be like that girl just be yourself!
  • Be nice to him and compliment him.
  • Try to get as much conversation as possible and become "friends" first! It's best to have a friendly relationship first.
  • Be confident
  • Have self-respect
  • Don't ever change for him. If he doesn't like you for you, then he's not worth it. Being yourself is the best thing you can do, regardless if it gets guys or not.
  • Be confident invite some people PR play truth or dare with his and your friends.
  • Boys aren't too worried about what your wearing. Don't go for a really trendy look. You wanna fun fun around him so choose something nice and comfortable.

Warnings

  • Don't stare at him all day and then do nothing! Instead, wait for him to look at you, then flash him a sweet smile.
  • As it was said above, don't stare at him like he's a God.. just subtly let him notice you and then look sexy and mysterious.
  • Don't think that just because you like him, he will like you. These instructions are a good way for him to notice you, but it's not always fool-proof.

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