Get a Guy to Break Up with His Girlfriend and Hook Up with You

Are you attracted to a guy who is already in a monogamous relationship? Are you hoping he will end that relationship and be available to you? Think through the implications of what you do next to try to influence his choices - the pain and complications of following your desires might not be worth the price. Read this article, consider your options and actions carefully, be patient and the results may end up in your favor.

Steps

Communication

  1. Keep communication going. Try to talk to him more than he talks to his girlfriend. If he talks to his girlfriend once a week, then text/talk to him every 2 days. Keep the juices flowing and don't bore him. But don't become too obsessive with him or he might feel like he's being suffocated.
  2. Don't mention his girlfriend. If he brings her up, Let him know you don't want to talk about her by quickly, yet smoothly changing the subject. Don't say things like that they are cute together or that they make a great couple. You will just make him think you aren't interested and that you are okay with them dating.

Spice It Up

  1. Wear cute clothes. Your attire should be sexy but classy. Keep your hair and make-up natural while still standing out. You want him to see that you are physically appealing as well.
  2. Flirt with other boys or talk about other guys you like. A guaranteed way to make a guy attracted to you is by making him jealous and making yourself seem unattainable. Talk with other boys and give them attention when he is in the same area. Observe his reaction. If he is staring at you while you do this, it is probably a good sign.
  3. Perfume walk-up. Wear a nice smelling perfume and walk by him. Observe his reaction once you pass.

Other Methods

  1. Be there for him. Make yourself the person he comes to when he has problems or needs advice. If he invites you to an event, do your best to be there. You want to present yourself to him as someone who is reliable and trustworthy.
  2. Strengthen the friendship. Most good relationships are based off an initial friendship. Spend time with him regularly and just get to know him better as a person, without pressure or expectations.
  3. Don't lie. You should never lie about yourself and especially about his girlfriend. If the guy you like found out that you lied to him about something so basic, there is no chance he will ever go out with you.
  4. Smile Smile when you see him. This will let him know that you are happy to see him. If you see him somewhere, say hi to let him know that you notice him.

Tips

  • Always have fresh breath, wear deodorant, and have good personal hygiene
  • If there is eye contact, he may be interested.
  • Don't tell him to break up with his girlfriend. It will only push him away from you. Let him decide that on his own.
  • You'll know if what you're doing is working after a few weeks, because he'll probably want to spend more time with you, and stare at you!
  • Be his friend.
  • Make sure to comfort him and flirt with him! Flirt a lot! If you are flirty around his girlfriend be careful, this might lead to an argument!
  • Be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are, he's not worth it.
  • Don't do this if you are looking for a long-term relationship. If he is the type that is willing to leave her for you, then he'll be the type to leave you for someone else.
  • Be nice. Look good and sexy and make him jealous.
  • If you see the guy you like somewhere where you wouldn't expect to see him, go up to him and greet him! If his girlfriend is there, you might consider a hug.
  • Be yourself at all times, no girl deserves a pathetic guy
  • Try to get their attention. Join a club or group that they are in. it will make them think that you truly are the right person for them.
  • Don't ask him out if he does break up with his girlfriend. It'll make you look promiscuous, and he might be on the rebound and accept even if he doesn't like you. Wait at least a month.
  • Stare at him when he isn't looking and if he does look take your eyes away from him it will hopefully make him attracted to you and think you like him.
  • Flirt a little but don't go overboard.
  • Never bother him when he is with his girlfriend.
  • Tell him when the time is right that you like him.
  • Don't feel bad if they don't like you in the end. That just means that they were not the right person for you. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
  • Make him jealous by liking another guy
  • If they do break up, wait a few weeks before you ask him out.
  • Compliment how they are looking. This will make him realize that you find him attractive and is more likely to want to spend time with you, as you make him feel good about himself.
  • Remember, never lie because if you lie they will like the other you instead of the real you then they won't like you anymore so always be yourself.
  • If you ask them out and they say no it's probably because they still love their girlfriend, but don't worry, it just takes time.
  • Don't talk about him and his girlfriend much unless he brings the subject up, if he does then say you don't want to discuss it with him because it's a bit personal.
  • Let him have space after they break up as well as you don't want to be the rebound chick.
  • Be friendly and let him know you're always there for him
  • Don't obsess over him give him space to do other things.
  • Don't get other people to keep asking him out for you.
  • Never let something he says get to you. Be yourself.

Warnings

  • Don't try this if he is a family man who has children with his partner. You may be conceived as a homewrecker and destroy a family home.
  • Although it may be a good idea to go after the man you like, it's probably a better idea not to chase after a man who is taken. Imagine if another woman came in the hopes to steal your man; you wouldn't like it so you should probably go in search for single men.

Things You'll Need

  • Text messaging, or instant messaging
  • Cellphone
  • Facebook, twitter, Myspace or Skype (if he has one)
  • Courage to actually talk to him
  • Confidence

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