Get a Wife and Have a Good Life With Her
It's hard to get a nice wife AND stick with her happily forever. In the USA, the divorce statistics are shocking. Here are some tips on how to find someone you will love and be with forever.
Steps
- Think about the qualities you want in your spouse. Make a list, including qualities that may be obvious, such as an age range. Remember that this list is just for you, so be honest about what your perfect woman would be like.
- Make sure your list does not get too long. Setting up too many requirements may make it impossible to find someone you would like to start a life with.
- Don't be confined to your list. Use it as guidelines on where to look for potential dates, but remember to keep an open mind. Love can pop up in unexpected places!
- Start dating. Start looking among people who share your interests. For example, if you play soccer, consider joining a local coed league. Go to a bar or club frequented by similar people to you. If you are having trouble meeting someone, consider online dating.
- Find someone you like, and begin a Create a Great Relationship.
- If it doesn’t work out, break up and start over.
- Once you have found someone you love, propose. Before proposing, however, you should make sure that you agree on what you want in life. Discuss whether you both want kids, where you would like to live, etc.
- Plan the wedding and get married. Make sure that you communicate about what you want your wedding to be like. Make your wedding day something that you will both remember as one of the best days of your lives.
- Once you are married, make sure that you keep working at your relationship. Many marriages have failed because the couple fails to maintain the spark that made their relationship magical to begin with.
- Communicate. Make sure you keep in touch with your spouse. Talk to her frequently, listen to her problems and triumphs, and laugh with her.
- Spend time together. This is especially important if you choose to start a family. Taking care of young children can be an exhausting and time consuming. Scheduling a date night once a week can give you both time to breathe and catch up with each other.
Tips
- Love your wife with all your heart.
- For Valentine's Day, either send her some of her favorite flowers, or take her out on a nice date.
- Respect her as much as you respect your mother.
- Giver enough time to her.
