Have a Relationship with a Younger Man

Are you tired of dating older men? Maybe you've met someone younger. Follow these easy steps and you can find happiness through youth.

Steps

  1. Look beyond the age and appreciate other qualities he may possess. Is he smarter, good looking, successful, sociable, interesting, conversational?
  2. Remember that 40 is the new 30 and 30 is the new 20. Many people date outside their age group. There is nothing wrong with two adults in a May-December romance.
  3. Don't be embarrassed by the age difference, be proud of it. Chances are your friends are secretly jealous.
  4. Open your mind to new experiences. Let him introduce you to new and fun things you hadn't done with your older exes.
  5. Take advantage of your wisdom. He'll appreciate the experience and knowledge.
  6. Try not to appear older. Dating a younger man can keep you inspired to keep a younger look.
  7. Visit the gym and try to keep in good health
  8. Stay atop of fashions and don't appear too frumpy. Be stylish and dress similarly to women his age if the look is appropriate for you.
  9. Embrace his music and introduce him to some of yours.
  10. Appreciate the differences but embrace the similarities.
  11. Understand he'll want to spend time with his friends. Don't be smothering and be mature enough to let him have guy's nights.
  12. Don't mother him. He has a mother. You never want him to imagine you as a maternal figure to him.
  13. Explore your own interest and don't let the age difference smother your personality. Understand he may not be interested in your hobbies but it doesn't mean you should abandon them.
  14. Try not to correct his inexperience all the time. "I told you so" can also strain a relationship if over-used.

Tips

  • Listen to what he has to say because then you will always know what he wants.
  • Don't be controlling. Young guys hate to be controlled, that's why they leave their oppressive parents and do rebellious acts like join the army.
  • You have to remember that since this young man is younger than you, he is probably into "younger man" stuff.
  • Sometimes men may lie about their age. If he seems too young you should verify his age.
  • Younger guys won't hang out in bars and clubs geared towards older patrons. Find some younger friends and visit clubs geared towards younger crowds.
  • If you're looking to meet someone younger you can hang out with some of your younger friends. Visit places with them and meet some of their friends.
  • Don't have unrealistic expectations, such as falling in love and having a family. Live the moment and have fun without being reckless!

Warnings

  • Women who date younger men are often called "Cougars".

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