Have a Relationship with a Younger Man
Are you tired of dating older men? Maybe you've met someone younger. Follow these easy steps and you can find happiness through youth.
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Steps
- Look beyond the age and appreciate other qualities he may possess. Is he smarter, good looking, successful, sociable, interesting, conversational?
- Remember that 40 is the new 30 and 30 is the new 20. Many people date outside their age group. There is nothing wrong with two adults in a May-December romance.
- Don't be embarrassed by the age difference, be proud of it. Chances are your friends are secretly jealous.
- Open your mind to new experiences. Let him introduce you to new and fun things you hadn't done with your older exes.
- Take advantage of your wisdom. He'll appreciate the experience and knowledge.
- Try not to appear older. Dating a younger man can keep you inspired to keep a younger look.
- Visit the gym and try to keep in good health
- Stay atop of fashions and don't appear too frumpy. Be stylish and dress similarly to women his age if the look is appropriate for you.
- Embrace his music and introduce him to some of yours.
- Appreciate the differences but embrace the similarities.
- Understand he'll want to spend time with his friends. Don't be smothering and be mature enough to let him have guy's nights.
- Don't mother him. He has a mother. You never want him to imagine you as a maternal figure to him.
- Explore your own interest and don't let the age difference smother your personality. Understand he may not be interested in your hobbies but it doesn't mean you should abandon them.
- Try not to correct his inexperience all the time. "I told you so" can also strain a relationship if over-used.
Tips
- Listen to what he has to say because then you will always know what he wants.
- Don't be controlling. Young guys hate to be controlled, that's why they leave their oppressive parents and do rebellious acts like join the army.
- You have to remember that since this young man is younger than you, he is probably into "younger man" stuff.
- Sometimes men may lie about their age. If he seems too young you should verify his age.
- Younger guys won't hang out in bars and clubs geared towards older patrons. Find some younger friends and visit clubs geared towards younger crowds.
- If you're looking to meet someone younger you can hang out with some of your younger friends. Visit places with them and meet some of their friends.
- Don't have unrealistic expectations, such as falling in love and having a family. Live the moment and have fun without being reckless!
Warnings
- Women who date younger men are often called "Cougars".
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