Kiss Your Boyfriend for the First Time

Kissing a boy may seem difficult at some times. Here is some advice to get past this initial barrier.

Steps

Kissing Him for the First Time

  1. Talk. It may be wise to talk to your boyfriend before embarking on the realms of physical romance. He may not feel ready yet, in which case kissing is best left alone.
  2. Consider the timing! Make sure you are ready for whatever happens. Know your barriers and know your comfort zone.
  3. Keep it private! Find a place you're not likely to be disturbed. Intrusion on this special moment could be the stuff of serious embarrassment. Once you are both comfortable with it, you could eventually kiss in front of friends or whomever under the circumstances.
  4. Move in! To continue from here, if you want to make it different and unique, try a different article. For a first kiss, however, it's probably best to be simple. Sometimes simple is romantic. Press softly and close your eyes. Tilt your head and pull them in.
  5. Kiss him. If you're going to do more than a peck, think about kissing for about 10 seconds and then pulling apart.
  6. Evaluate! Think about things you will want to change the next time and such. Have fun with it!

Test Your Knowledge

Doc:Kiss a Boy Quiz

Tips

  • Nobody in their right mind wants to kiss someone with bad breath. Brush your teeth, and wait until you're sure your breath doesn't smell before embarking on that special moment. Mouthwash helps!
  • Try chewing on a mint before you kiss.
  • Don't get too hung up on details. Sometimes it's best just to get on and have that special moment. Fussing too much over hair will only get in the way.
  • Don't make it too long. If you hold the kiss for too long it will start to intrude on the borders of sexuality, and that's not romantic.
  • If he seems lost about knowing where to put his hands, you could pick up his hands and put them on your waist (or where ever you like).

Warnings

  • Don't feel pressured to kiss someone. If you're not ready; he or she should understand (and if he or she doesn't, she or he's not worth wasting time over).
  • Don't take it too far! If you push the kiss too far and start further physical contact you may freak your partner out!
  • If you kiss too often, it will lose its "magic". Save it for special occasions, then it will seem better.
  • Don't kiss someone you don't love! This only ever leads to trouble.

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