Make the Popular Girl Want to Be Your Friend Without Talking to Her

Here you can learn how to make the popular girl want to be your friend, with minimal talking. By interacting with her inner-circle of friends, you will later find it easier to hang around the girl.

Steps

  1. Start hanging around with her friends. If they like you, then she'll like you.
  2. Discover their hidden rules. Every group has unspoken rules; if you uncover them, you are "in." You can find out their rules through her friends.
  3. Try talking to her once you're "in."
  4. Be confident if you want her to talk to you. Relax, if you give a calm, composed image of yourself, she will almost surely see something worthwhile in you.
  5. Forget about all your issues and faults. You are perfect.
  6. If you just want to be friends, all you have to do is say "hello" and be friendly when you are hanging out in the group or if you see her around.
  7. Try to get closer once the casual greeting is established. Ask her about her weekend, what movies she's seen lately, whether she's heard the new Radiohead album, what she thinks of the presidential candidates, etc. Use your imagination. Find out what she likes, and get talking. Research her interests.
  8. Play hard to get after showing her some attention. When in a group, don't talk to her, look at her, or show her attention. If you see her around, don't say "hi". Ignore her until she is just enough confused and mad and then flip the switch back on. It is best not to play hard to get and instead have her become your friend because she likes you for who you are (see Warnings).
  9. Just enjoy life, and good things will happen.
  10. Be the best you can be. Good Luck!!

Tips

  • When speaking, remain calm. She won't take you seriously if she senses that you're nervous. Avoid saying um or uh, and speak at a medium pace. You don't want to speak too fast or too slow. See if she has anything in common with you (a movie, activity, etc) to help break the ice.
  • Be calm around her. Just let your hair down and just relax.
  • Don't be desperate. It will creep her out and she won't want to hang out with you.
  • Do really well in a ton of things to impress her. If you're good at horseback riding/soccer/dancing/ or whatever you're good at, ask a friend to come and ask the friend to bring Jennifer/Lizzy/Embeth, or whatever the girls name is, with you.

Warnings

  • Playing "hard to get" is a tricky, dangerous, and somewhat sleazy way to win affection. Do not expect to receive any real love from this technique. Any affection or attention that you do get will not be based on who you are but on this girl's insecurity.
  • There is a good probability for failure, but not if you follow these tips and just be yourself.
  • Don't try too hard--if she's not interested, there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
  • Don't be shy. Stand out from the crowd!
  • Don't try to be someone you're not just to be loved. True love means that the person loves you for who you are. First, learn to appreciate and respect yourself. Next, learn how to love and respect others. After that, it won't matter whether others like/respect/love you. Seek out those who do.

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